tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75733252261026819362024-03-27T16:54:11.142-07:00心的碎碎念用心理学治愈自己的瑜伽占星者Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.comBlogger180125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-7185822589001422302024-03-25T08:49:00.000-07:002024-03-25T08:54:15.373-07:00最高級的“懲惡揚善”<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNkDJ5BpTk1hcwkiUF9DvQXBJO5vaKObWJJN8hKp4KTGSF9_3k01s-70-swY-ia78QaMYPWbT_h8Fw92JdioeXa5JGTordQtSY_A4WyhKXfeZcVKKgZb8Jg07FY7O0BIVi70ccrgTYbUjYc83AZhjFYoqggnaBWh8pTU8g9bN-PYDIfqVqswd_Qis8dWg/s860/1710299536498.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="484" data-original-width="860" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNkDJ5BpTk1hcwkiUF9DvQXBJO5vaKObWJJN8hKp4KTGSF9_3k01s-70-swY-ia78QaMYPWbT_h8Fw92JdioeXa5JGTordQtSY_A4WyhKXfeZcVKKgZb8Jg07FY7O0BIVi70ccrgTYbUjYc83AZhjFYoqggnaBWh8pTU8g9bN-PYDIfqVqswd_Qis8dWg/w400-h225/1710299536498.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span face="-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span face="-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #888888;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我們親手創造了自己所在的這個世界。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span face="-apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #888888;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></span></div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="color: #888888; font-family: courier;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">當妳聽到“以惡制惡”、“懲惡揚善”這些詞彙時,妳感受到什麽?<a name='more'></a></span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: courier;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">請想象以下這個畫面——現在,有壹位情緒激昂的人正站在妳的面前,他信誓旦旦地對衆人說他要“以惡制惡”、“懲惡揚善”......</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果他的言語獲得了妳的認同、喚起了妳的多巴胺、激發了妳的腎上腺使妳興奮地與他産生了共鳴,覺得他很了不起,覺得自己也正在或將要和他壹樣做壹些了不起的事情時,妳已經失去了理智。</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">壹個失去理智的人總是會做出對自己、他人和社會充滿危險甚至毀滅性的事情。壹個社會,如果失去理智的人占大多數,那麽這個社會就處處充滿</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_24.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">危險</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">。這就是危險無處不在的最根本的原因。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">當妳感受到那個人字裏行間所傳遞出來的興奮、激動和釋放的“快感”(我們暫且通俗地把它稱之爲“解氣”)時,妳也覺得很解氣。可是,妳的“氣”從何而來呢?——是因爲妳“</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_17.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">認同</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">” 他,妳認爲“惡”傷害或將會傷害妳或妳的家人,妳認爲“惡”應該被消滅,因爲這個“惡”讓妳緊張、害怕、擔憂和恐懼。現在,妳和他處于同壹戰線。在他釋放快感的同時,妳也在認同他的過程中宣泄著自己的快感。而在這壹過程中,妳是否意識到自己充滿了恐懼、敵視、仇恨和憤怒呢?妳是否意識到自己被他人的情緒所煽動了呢?妳又是否意識到自己有想要毀滅的沖動呢?</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">想要透過“以惡治惡”者,本身就是</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_9.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">恐懼</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">之人,無論他多麽大張旗鼓地宣稱自己是正義的化身或愛的使者,都無法掩蓋他就是壹團黑色的唳氣這個事實。壹個充滿恐懼的人必然是緊張、害怕的,當壹個人緊張害怕時,就會産生極端對立的思維——不是妳死就是我亡,這種徹底消滅和毀滅對方的想法,本身就是壹種無意識的“惡”。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-ww0h6Yy3dzrV1zjc-56VKIEePkqZHnIXris3Br0gF_S268uEllF150fQwog9Kh8xNKgpLejFnhO8pz7iDCAXclfIxL2GNKRJpAjudxkL6vOlYr34VlywjyW5R3kX8vtx6GZr2AxOXiGuCLOLv1_qjTlycL8PUjtxP8POw2t6Girf5a9IHuu02itoDjc/s1157/640.webp" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1157" data-original-width="639" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-ww0h6Yy3dzrV1zjc-56VKIEePkqZHnIXris3Br0gF_S268uEllF150fQwog9Kh8xNKgpLejFnhO8pz7iDCAXclfIxL2GNKRJpAjudxkL6vOlYr34VlywjyW5R3kX8vtx6GZr2AxOXiGuCLOLv1_qjTlycL8PUjtxP8POw2t6Girf5a9IHuu02itoDjc/w354-h640/640.webp" width="354" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">愛是燦爛的光明,壹團黑色的唳氣無論身處何處都只會給這個世界徒增黑暗。正如我不止壹次地提到:壹個人只能給出他已經擁有的東西—— 壹個擁有黑暗的人給不到這個世界愛與光明,他只會造成更多的黑暗。除非,他成爲光明。這個世界從來都是因爲愛/光明而變得美好,而不是仇恨/黑暗。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">那些打著“正義”和“</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post_12.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">愛他人</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">”旗號的人,不過是有意或無意地透過僞愛而粉飾自己的邪惡罷了。什麽才是正義呢?壹個人殺了另壹個人叫犯罪,壹群人去殺另壹個人或另壹群人就成了理所當然的正義。這是何其荒謬的理論?!但這個世界向來如此,戰爭從未在這個地球上消失就是人們認同這種荒謬的理論而造成的。在無硝煙的這個生活戰場上,人們也正做著同樣的事情。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我們都很容易在別人身上看到“惡”,卻對自己的“惡”渾然不知。那是因爲我們的眼睛是向外看的。如果我們轉向內看自己,就會發現其實自己和他們並沒有不同,充滿了恐懼、分裂、敵對、仇視、殺戮和毀滅的種子。種子壹旦種下,就會靜待時機生根發芽。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">在無意識中不自覺地做惡,就算沒有在行動中體現,但惡的能量在那個念頭出現時就已經開始發揮了作用,這就是</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_23.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">種子的力量</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">。只要有認同就會出現對立和分裂,只要有分裂就會有敵對和毀滅,僞愛之謊言不攻自破。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">所以,播下什麽樣的</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/blog-post_39.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">種子</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">至關重要!當我們能夠洞察到這壹切時,生命就正在悄無聲息地發生改變,正在接近愛與光明。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">壹定要對自己的認同或反對保持高度的警覺,否則,我們就很容易成爲</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_10.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">烏合之衆</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">,在人雲亦雲下不自覺地成爲了做惡者。而身處其中的,恰恰是我們自己,是我們親手創造了自己所在的這個世界。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">事實上,在宇宙母親的懷抱裏,生命的壹切都被安排和照顧得妥妥當當。我們之所以焦慮、擔憂、不安、恐懼、憤怒、敵對、仇視、殺戮......是因爲從壹出生開始,壹個被稱之爲 “小我” 的東西就在不斷地形成。隨著小我日積月累的體驗,頭腦進行分門別類的存儲,于是 “分別” 的機制産生,並依此模式來經驗(經曆和體驗)這個世界。這就是我們口中所說的這個 “我” 的運作模式。但是,必須明確壹點:我們口中的這個我,是 “</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">小我</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">” ,不是真正的 “我” 。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">壹個人能在多大程度上覺知到這壹點,他就離真正的 “我” 越近,那個 “小我/頭腦” 就會變得越弱。頭腦壹直想成爲主人,擁有完全的控制權。隨著</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/07/blog-post_31.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">對 “小我” 的觀察</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">——只是觀察,而不感受任何,“小我” 就會漸漸自我消融。而壹旦 ”小我“ 消融,焦慮、擔憂、不安、恐懼、憤怒、敵對、仇視......都會消融,感受到的就只有安全、溫暖、喜悅和愛。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #888888;">壹切都只是選擇,這個世界正在因爲人們的恐懼、漠視、自私、仇恨、憤怒而變得醜陋與黑暗,而我們可以選擇傳播</span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html"><span style="color: #ffa400;">愛與光明</span></a><span style="color: #888888;">。因爲,我們每壹個人都身處我們自己所創造的世界之中。</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">所有那些試圖想要通過人性去改善和獲得自.由的事情都只是火上澆油,它只會強大 “小我”。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我們壹遍又壹遍地借助不同的皮囊來到這個地球,就是要在這個地球上學習最基本的生命課題——愛與光明這個課題。當每個人成爲了光明和愛時,就不會再有任何黑暗了,我們所在之處即光明,問題本身就是答案。請不要吝啬動動手指轉發分享,妳的壹個善舉都會讓這個世界多壹點愛和光明。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #888888;"><span style="background-color: transparent; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">(心理、親子、情感、療愈、星盤解析服務,請添加wechat:201098065咨詢。)</span></div></span></span></div><br /><p></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-33559913836982686862024-03-15T02:24:00.000-07:002024-03-15T02:27:00.207-07:00如何不被道德綁架?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhS5uTI4XvogpfsC_gPrZS1fpf0xsYGsJV_KjcGaT7idq5ai3FdOIBfBQJHrnctI8giWnKGujxc9QMTZcNtxr44Vdd5DmDeAuwzKRMA8ZoqBzYMUqVchR2smP6FuVo8XONaRxGUd5LPMQmNszrEOlxt3qXgG7-6srdnl3NwnZqs8ikJLsubJrTHplSmCPI/s508/v2-76d4aefb7a070f0691724582cf1fedf0_b.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="508" data-original-width="508" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhS5uTI4XvogpfsC_gPrZS1fpf0xsYGsJV_KjcGaT7idq5ai3FdOIBfBQJHrnctI8giWnKGujxc9QMTZcNtxr44Vdd5DmDeAuwzKRMA8ZoqBzYMUqVchR2smP6FuVo8XONaRxGUd5LPMQmNszrEOlxt3qXgG7-6srdnl3NwnZqs8ikJLsubJrTHplSmCPI/w400-h400/v2-76d4aefb7a070f0691724582cf1fedf0_b.png" width="400" /></a></div><p><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">我們生活中從來不乏壹些 “道德家”,他們成天滿口仁義道德。這類人,不壹定是陌生人,很多時候,往往是我們身邊的人。</span></p><span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><a name='more'></a></span></span><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">妳熱愛文體,他們說妳不務正業;妳留學海外紮根,他們說妳忘本;妳想過平凡生活,他們說妳不思上進;妳追求理想,他們說妳只顧自己;妳想獨身或丁克,他們說 “不孝有三,無後爲大”;妳不喜歡賺錢,他們說妳爛泥扶不上牆;妳喜歡賺錢,他們說妳掉錢眼兒裏了;妳做普通工作,他們說妳沒野心;妳做高級主管,他們說妳不知用了什麽手段這麽快爬上去;妳經濟條件好,他們說妳鐵石心腸,都不幫補下家裏的窮親戚;妳幫補了七大姑八大姨,他們說妳真是小氣鬼,都那麽有錢了還那麽吝啬;妳探尋古老文化的底蘊,他們說妳盡搞些過時和沒用的東西;妳喜歡海外文化,他們說妳吃裏扒外;妳想跟他們講肺腑之言,他們說妳能言善辯;妳沈默不語,他們說妳自視清高......</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">如果妳生活在這樣的環境下,又沒有強大的內心,壹定會被這些毒舌們傷得四分五裂,痛苦不堪。不幸的是,很多咨詢者目前都處于這樣的環境下。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">要知道,那些成天把<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post_12.html">道德</a>挂在嘴邊,永遠站在道德高地,道貌岸然地標榜自己爲“高尚”的人,從來都是最沒有道德的人。他們信口雌黃,無非是爲了滿足自己泄憤的壹己私欲。他們還能向誰去泄憤呢?從小,他們是被家庭和學校泄憤的對象;工作了,他們是被領導泄憤的對象;成家了,他們或許是被強勢的另壹半泄憤的對象......他們只能向比自己更加弱小和更加軟弱的人泄憤,比如身邊看上去脾氣好的人、晚輩,或者售貨員、服務生、隔著網絡屏幕的陌生人,甚至小貓小狗、花草樹木.....</span></div></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">如果這些人再帶點<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/11/ppd.html">偏執</a>,那就 “更不好惹” 了。他們壹輩子只學會了壹件事,那就是緊盯著別人,抓別人的小辮子,看看誰做“錯”了事,看哪裏沒符合他們所謂的規範,好去加以<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post_22.html">評判和譴責</a>。他們不只在自己生活的地方如此,他們還放眼全球,堪稱“整個世界的糾察隊長”。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">請別試圖跟他們擺事實、講道理,那樣做只會傷害自己。偏執狂要的就是激起妳的回應和憤怒,他們會非常 “狡猾” 地引誘妳掉入他們設好的陷阱,然後不分青紅皂白地<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html">攻擊</a>妳。妳壹旦回應,就正中下懷。妳遍體鱗傷的時刻,正是他們享受泄憤後的滿足時刻。他們在意的不是事實,而是攻擊別人的快感和是能否在這場“戰爭”中獲勝。這也意味著,妳對他們而言,是壹個“敵人”。</span></div></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">如果妳沒有看清這壹切,妳當真了,較真了,生氣了,回應了,那妳就是在拿別人的錯誤來懲罰自己。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">憤怒是壹杯毒酒,當妳生氣時,妳就在飲這杯毒酒,妳不僅毒害著這個身體,還毒害著生命的整個系統。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">妳說妳無法控制,那是因爲 “<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post.html">業力</a>” 的種子在起作用。因爲妳已經無數次飲下類似的毒酒了。壹生氣,就飲毒酒,妳已經習慣了這個模式,它讓妳陷入憤怒、痛苦,陷入自我攻擊和懲罰中受苦。</span></div></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">現在,當妳意識到自己要飲壹杯毒酒,對方也許並未受到任何傷害而妳卻百分百受到了傷害時,妳要做的第壹件事,就是保護自己和愛自己。就在妳控制不住要生氣的時候,讓自己做幾次深呼吸直至呼吸順暢爲止,然後保持平靜的呼吸,並觀想眼前那些可憐的人自成長以來就有意或無意地受到了諸多或主動和被動的洗腦。在他們的世界裏,他們所相信的就是真理,或者說他們自認爲他們自己就是真理。在這樣的病態環境下,無視他們,繼續做自己,是對自己最大的保護和對他們最好的反擊。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">柏拉圖曾說:“在壹個由騙子和傻子組成的社會中,人們痛恨的並非說謊者,而是揭穿謊言的人。”這就像有人爲了放走壹只被囚禁的鳥打破了鳥籠想讓鳥兒自由,可鳥兒卻責怪那個人毀掉了它的家壹樣。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">畢竟,在這個世界上,能真正做到<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_10.html">衆人皆醉我獨醒</a>的人微乎其微。騙子之所以能夠壹直欺騙下去,是因爲總有傻子相信。他們只是構成了這個社會的壹部分而已。當妳試圖跟他們擺事實、講道理並喚醒他們時,就好比妳要打破他們美夢、奪走他們的安全壹樣,他們壹定會拼了命與妳這個”敵人“壹決高下。</span></div></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">傻子喜歡做白日夢,那就讓他們繼續做下去;他們喜歡自欺欺人,那就任由他們繼續。這個世界從來都是這樣運作的,智者聖賢都未曾改變,更可況妳我?!無需爲自己辯解,只需要學習如何更有意識的活著。只有這樣,妳對自己的生命所做的決定才是堅定的。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">必須學會遵循自己的覺知來行動,而不是別人的評價、議論、道德約束、命令或規定。否則,在某種層面上,妳和他們有相似之處,會因人格無法完全獨立而奴.役自己,並在奴.性中越陷越深。也因此妳才會不斷地自我譴責和自我懲罰。</span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #444444; font-family: arial;">借由這些人,學會承擔起自己的成長責任。只有擁有壹顆強大的內心,才不會受到外界的侵擾。不要把責任完全推給他們,沒有他們,我們無法意識到自己需要成長。保持警覺,持續不斷地覺知,就不會受苦。透過意識而活,而不是情緒。成爲警覺的,妳就可以爲自己的生命負責。然後妳就會<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post.html">成爲光</a>,黑暗就消失了。(心理、親子、情感、療愈、星盤解析服務,請添加wechat:201098065咨詢。)</span></div></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-91883470656496142642024-03-07T01:41:00.000-08:002024-03-07T01:41:41.055-08:00孤独是一种被误解的“单独”<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhictpvVhvsv0k91_VGNEInII5YjSbFtrzwZEnZIOZMvkHEjb-PBIz1Cj7hnzCrQJ4vU4Fk4EGiomZJa23T_GUTLgsNcMnfygr7T1oTvjS049cFUQ1MhR1y3FkutxHE50oZwZ1jZtcVQVdJV25RCHQ8lZ0IjmgAsrsVzrRCcbihs-AGWFiRYeVC15pGYws/s690/640%20(1).jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="602" data-original-width="690" height="349" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhictpvVhvsv0k91_VGNEInII5YjSbFtrzwZEnZIOZMvkHEjb-PBIz1Cj7hnzCrQJ4vU4Fk4EGiomZJa23T_GUTLgsNcMnfygr7T1oTvjS049cFUQ1MhR1y3FkutxHE50oZwZ1jZtcVQVdJV25RCHQ8lZ0IjmgAsrsVzrRCcbihs-AGWFiRYeVC15pGYws/w400-h349/640%20(1).jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">单独,并不意味着孤独。孤独是一种被误解的“单独”。孤独,是因为没有保持</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/03/blog-post_29.html">独立的个体</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">性。<span><a name='more'></a></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你是否还依稀记得,曾几何时,你也在喧嚣的人群中忽然倍感孤独,于是渴望有一个人能陪在自己身边好消除自己的寂寞?当你们如漆似胶地热恋时,你是否也曾偶尔感到某种突如其来的空虚?于是你渴望借由其他(学识、能力、圈子、权利、金钱等等)来弥补这份空虚。终于有一天,当你拥有了这一切,你发现更深的空虚和恐惧会时不时地涌上心头......还能再拥有些什么呢?还能再拥有些什么才能赶走这该死的空虚、寂寞和恐惧感呢?你找不到答案,于是,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_25.html">渴望更多的拥有</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">、采取更多的控制以及求而不得的歇息底里就几乎成了你生活的主旋律。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你并不知道事态是如何失控的,你更不会知道,其实从一开始,它就已经走错了方向。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这一切结果的始作俑者,是因为你不够单独,你缺少了个体性。一个独立的个体一旦缺失了个体性,就会迷失在群体之中。而群体之所以被称之为“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">乌合之众</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”是因为智慧从来不曾诞生在群体之中,群体只会产生偏见、误导、谣言和作恶。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人一旦迷失在群体之中,就会很自然地把所有的问题和责任都推给外界和别人,就会很自然地逃避自己应承担的责任,就会自然而然地丢弃自己的意识,变成一只迷途的羔羊,即使不任人宰割,也会任由无意识产生诸多的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post_22.html">偏见</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">、被误导、相信和传播谣言、甚至是不自觉地作恶<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">(伤害别人)</span>。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有的智者自始至终都</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_10.html">清醒</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">地保持着自己的个体性,就算要他们死也无法让他们与“乌合之众”同流合污。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人若能够始终保持单独的个体性,他就成了一个独一无二的存在,一个无所不能的存在,一个自在圆满的存在。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,一阵微风吹来,你感受到它轻抚着你的肌肤,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post.html">一片树叶飘落</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,你欣赏它美妙优雅的舞蹈,你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,一片云朵飘来,你看到它从有形变成无形,最后消失在湛蓝的天幕中,你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,听着鸟儿的啼叫,你陶醉在它清脆甜美的歌声中,你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,一只瓢虫落下,你惊叹造物主的无限创造力,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,孩子向你微笑,你融化在那无限的爱中,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它融为一体,你与它同在;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,即使最爱的人离开,你也会心生无限的感激,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它融为一体,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它同在;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,就算死亡前来敲门,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你也会对生命充满感激和好奇</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它融为一体,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你与它同在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当你真正单独时,你不会感到孤独,你没有时间去孤独,因为你每时每刻都与来到自己生命中的人事物融为一体,他们始终与你同在,“寂寞”一词永远不会出现在你人生的字典中。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑甚至在临死前都会一直在问各种各样的“为什么”。一个人,如果在他即将离开这个世界之前依然带着那么多的疑惑,那将是他此生的不幸,因为他白白浪费了宝贵的一生,他到死都还没明白</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">自己是谁?为何而活?该去向何处?</a></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">别让这种不幸永无止境地轮回上演,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">学着单独,因为一个个体只有单独,才能避免成为乌合之众,坠落的意识才会逐渐被唤醒,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你才会发现,生命并不是头脑中的那些假象和幻象,你才会发现实相,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">才能品尝到生命的美妙滋味,才能</span></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">体验惊喜,获得富足。否则,就只能活在头脑时不时创造出来的地狱现实之中。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人生不必刻意去追求什么最高境界,能做到单独但不孤独,就已经足够。</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信201098065咨询。)</span></i></section></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-36927023582444322482024-02-23T00:37:00.000-08:002024-02-23T00:37:25.501-08:00所有的“关系”是如何变得丑陋的?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaZYN43-sn5ouf4osTLcxqZ_4rxLXiTOpt_sSZrXp8tGICk9YrGwE9i_AVSXlNFqe2f6_8bOiy7ssiVc3M7W29syODihz24d7SjG8xY2_YtHyFGe8s7Bu6qTbv2lYDlcsMQ2H_zNNHDhvG5kzJIuHa3lsoPbAT_d74px2tENOSKMHuMQA6M6VY83a688Q/s910/640.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="475" data-original-width="910" height="209" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaZYN43-sn5ouf4osTLcxqZ_4rxLXiTOpt_sSZrXp8tGICk9YrGwE9i_AVSXlNFqe2f6_8bOiy7ssiVc3M7W29syODihz24d7SjG8xY2_YtHyFGe8s7Bu6qTbv2lYDlcsMQ2H_zNNHDhvG5kzJIuHa3lsoPbAT_d74px2tENOSKMHuMQA6M6VY83a688Q/w400-h209/640.png" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6827; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">所有的关系都应该基于爱,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6827; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">而不是责任、义务和利益</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6827; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6827; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">如果你有爱,你是爱,爱就无处不在。整个社会之所以变得丑陋不堪,是因为几乎所有的关系都建立在“责任”、“义务”和“利益”之上,而非“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/12/blog-post_14.html">爱</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”之上。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">我可以帮大家回顾一下自己童年的某些情景。比如:下雨了,会不由自主地跑进雨地里欢呼雀跃,任由雨水洒落在自己脸上、身上,张着嘴巴看看究竟有多少雨滴能落入口中......下雪了,小心翼翼地地在洁白的雪地上踩出脚印,印上手印</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,尝雪的味道,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">兴奋不已地</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">在雪地里打滚、打雪仗......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">以上情景是否能够唤起大家童年的回忆呢?又是否能令大家意识到年幼时自己的行为都是由心而生的,由爱主导的?那个时候所做的决定没有</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/08/blog-post.html">头脑</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的参与,没有利弊的衡量,没有好坏之分,都是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">自发自动</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。可是</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">后来呢?后来如何呢?</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当我们被父母说“这孩子真傻!”“快回来,把衣服/鞋子都弄湿/弄脏了!”“这孩子真不听话/不懂事”等等之后,就会在每一次决定之前有所顾虑——“这样到底对不对?”“我应不应该?”“我会不会被父母责骂或惩罚?”......<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我们大多数人变得听话、懂事的前提,都是以牺牲</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post.html">爱/自性</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">为前提,带着被家庭、社会所强加的定义长大,于是,责任、义务和利益就成了我们首要考虑的问题,而这一切所带来的只有顾虑和包袱,没有爱。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每一个年幼的孩子都是爱,可随着他们长大成人,爱消失了,顾虑却越来越多——</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* <span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我不能离婚,否则孩子就会失去一个完整的家;</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* 我不能单身,否则<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">父母肯定会接受不了;</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* 我必须混出个样儿来,否则另一半会看不起我;<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* 我必须尽全力打拼,一家人都指望着我;<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* 我得有个孩子,最起码老了还有个人在身边;<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">......<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">绝大部分人,都会把以上这些称之为“爱”。但恰恰相反,这些统统都不是爱,而是责任、义务和利益。否则,我们的生活中就不会出现诸如——</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “就是因为听了你的,我现在才变成这副模样!”</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “早知道你是这样的,我就不会对你如何如何”</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “我每天起早贪黑地为了你做了什么什么,可你呢?“等等</span>的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/10/blog-post.html">抱怨、指责和攻击</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">了。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">人们带着“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post_97.html">应该</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”、“不得不”的思想包袱不情愿地做着一些事情。单<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是听到这些话,就能感受到这里面没有一丝丝的爱,</span>可大多数人却总是喜欢自我欺骗说这是爱的表现。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当然,如果真的有爱,带着爱而做一些事情,则会用以下方式来表达——</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “感谢你一直陪伴在我身边</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">教导我、帮助我,让我成为了更好的自己”</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “我爱你不是因为你的身份和地位,而是因为你就是你所是的样子”<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">* “我为你做这一切,仅仅只是因为</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/03/blog-post_29.html">我爱你</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,我很开心能为你做这一切“</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">......<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">所有的关系都应该基于爱,而不是责任、义务和利益。否则,爱就消失了,剩下的就只有丑陋。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当一个人背着包袱做任何事情的时候,他不仅会变得不幸福,甚至还可能变得不幸。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">永远不要把任何事当成一个包袱——学习、工作、事业、婚姻、家庭、抚养和教育孩子、甚至是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post.html">灵性成长</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">......当一个人不是出于自发自动地爱与喜悦的状态做任何事情时,那都会是一个包袱。除非带着爱、成为爱。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">如果我们真的爱孩子,就会让他自由自在地成长,让他做自己喜欢的事,即使他离我们很远,也依然会祝福他们;可是,如果打着爱孩子的名义而担心自己——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/08/blog-post_21.html">担心</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">自己未来会无依无靠,那就变成了利益交换;又或者只是觉得作为父母应该如何如何,那就只是在尽责任和义务抚养孩子,而不是爱他们。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">总有父母抱怨说:</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”我如何如何对我的孩子付出,他非但不感激反而......"</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">他们怎么会感谢你呢?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">你出于</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">责任、义务和利益把他们像包袱一样地</span>扛<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">在身上,不停地以各种各样的方式让他们觉得自己是个包袱和累赘,让他们产生负罪感。然后你还要求他们感激你?</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">请永远记得:<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">无论孩子多小,他们都会对父母是否真的爱自己心知肚明、一清二楚!他们</span></strong></span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">知道父母究竟是否真的爱自己还是把自己当成一个包袱和累赘!</strong></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">所有的关系都是这个道理。<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">无论处在任何关系中,都要出于爱,而不是</span></span>责任、义务和利益</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。后者<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是丑陋的,更是一种</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_14.html">暴力</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">行为。</span>这就是为何很多在物质基础相当丰沛的家庭环境下成长起来的孩子依然缺爱并患上心理疾病的原因,也是为<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">何</span>很多婚姻会变得名存实亡的原因。</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; 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box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #999999;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">报答父母最好的方式,是首先成为自己,</span><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;">然后</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">在灵性上<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;">帮助他们</span></span><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;">成长。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #999999;"><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">逢年过节,很多咨询者都会被“是否应该回家过年</span>/<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">节<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”</span>这个问题所困扰。很多人不想回去,但又怕被扣上“不孝”的帽子。这种道德绑架始终束缚着他们的内心,让他们难以抉择。<span></span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的确,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在我们的成长过程中遇到的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">各种各样条条框框十分普遍。</span>有人墨守陈规,委曲求全,在被冠以“孝子"或”好人”等等美名之外却承受着不被人知的巨大精神压力;也有人我行我素、无所畏惧,在“不孝”和“自私”等等恶名之下追寻自我。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无论属于上述二者中的哪一种,其实都是犹如钟摆的两极一样,不是向左就是向右,它们都不是最佳的方式。要避免走到钟摆的两极,就要做到平衡,而要达到平衡,我们首先必须</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">探寻生命的本质</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每个年幼的孩子都需要父母(或其他监护人)的照顾和看护,因为他们还太小、太无助以至于需父母的帮助。但问题就在于,所有的孩子都会脱离童年,但大多数父母却永远脱离不了父母的角色!</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">为人父母是很严肃的一门人生功课,也是一门艺术,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不是所有有孩子的人都能称之为合格的父母。</strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">随着孩子的成长,父母淡出孩子的生活是必要的人生功课之一。孩子的出生和成长使得父母见证了生命的奇迹,完善了父母最初没有记忆的那些时光,它本应使父母对生命更加敬畏和感恩,也因此变得更加独立和</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。可在<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们的文化和传统里,绝大部分父母非但没有淡出子女的生活,甚至还介入了孙子的生活,这是所有家庭困扰和矛盾存在的根源。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">几乎所有父母都想透过孩子来满足自己的某些期待。因为他们也都曾被他们的父母用来满足自己的期待。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当孩子无法满足父母的某些期待时,便会对自己失望、产生内疚......然后,这些孩子带着对自己的失望和内疚长大成人,接着做了父母,继续用同样的方式对待自己的孩子——让孩子满足他的期待,然后孩子对自己感到</span>失望,产生内疚......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这是一个不争的事实,也是大部分人所不愿承认的事实。但正是这些</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post.html">自我欺骗</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,使得大部分父母在该成长的时候不但没有成长,反而逃避自我成长的责任从而变成了巨婴,而被这些巨婴父母所抚养的下一代,也必然传承着巨婴养成所需具备的一切。</span>这就是整个社会普遍存在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/05/blog-post_18.html">自卑情节</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的根源。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">要打破这个死循环,唯一的方式就是首先做真正的自己,成为真正的生命,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">让自己保持不受干扰和不担忧的状态,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">始终保持自己的平静、幸福和喜悦</span>,要追寻自己的生命之光而活。有必要再强调一次——我是说为了追寻自己的生命之光而活,而非为了</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_24.html">逃避</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">或自私自利地活。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">佛陀成道前曾有十二年杳无音讯,他是老国王唯一老来得子的继承人。可他却从皇宫里逃走了。所有的父母都能体会到老国王的那种愤怒,正如自己的孩子没能满足自己的期待那样。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">佛陀开悟后回到自己的国家,跟老国王分享自己的喜悦,他说:“爸爸,我已经回到家了,我找到真理了,我得</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">道</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">了。”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而老国王见到这个不孝子说着这样的胡言乱语气得浑身发抖,他咆哮着说:“你让我丢尽了脸!你像个乞丐一样站在我面前,我们几百年来都是皇族,你真是让我蒙羞!”......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">老国王整整数落和咒骂了佛陀半个小时,佛陀却一言不发,只是静静地听着。当老国王骂累了,只是老泪纵横的时候,佛陀才开口:“我只请你做一件事,请擦干你的泪水看着我——我已不是当年离家的那个人了,我已经完全蜕变了。但是你的双眼满是泪水,你看不到。你还在对一个已经不存在的人发火。但那个人已经死了。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">老国王听完更加暴怒了,他说:“你这是在教训我吗?你是在说我是白痴吗?我连自己的儿子都认不出了吗?你的身体里流着我的血,难道我会认不出你吗?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">佛陀说:“请不要误解我。我的这个身体的确因你而来,但我的意识却不然。我的意识是我的实相,而这个身体却不是。你说得对,这个家族几代都是皇族,但就我对自己的认识来讲,我的前世过着乞丐的生活,我的前前世也是乞丐,因为我一直在追寻真理。我的身体是透过你而出生的,但你就像是一个通道一样,我并非你创造出来的,你只是一个媒介,我的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/01/blog-post_21.html">意识</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和你的意识毫无关联。我的意思是我带着一份新意识回家了,我已经历了重生。看看我吧,看看我的喜悦吧!”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">老国王简直不敢相信眼前的儿子竟说出这样的“胡言乱语”。不过,有一件事他倒是非常肯定,那就是即便他如此暴怒,但儿子却一点反应也没有。这绝对是个新鲜事,因为他了解自己的儿子。如果还是以前的那个儿子,他会变得跟他一样、甚至比他更暴怒。但眼前这个人一点儿也不生气,他脸上带着绝对的安详、极大的宁静。他没有被他的怒气所干扰。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">老国王抹去泪水,又看了一次眼前这个人,这次,他看到了儿子身上全新的优雅......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">纠结与烦恼是因为被外境干扰所致。每个父母都有他们的期待,不要以为满足他们的期待一切就会变得不同,他们就不会担心了。他们仍会担心,这是他们的法宝,他们的期待也随时随地在改变。不要被他们的担心所制约,那是他们的事情。他们之所以会对你失望,是因为你不再为他们的担心而担心了,而他们却不习惯如此。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果你担心,他们就会心安理得地再一次把你拖回那个沼泽地,他们会非常开心你又回到了他们熟悉的框架和传统里,但这帮不了你,也帮不了你的父母。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果你追寻生命之光前行, 你就保持了</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/01/blog-post_21.html">独立</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,你就可以自由地绽放自己的生命,成为真正的自己。你会获得更多的平静、爱、喜悦与智慧,这样你就有机会与他们分享你的幸福。请记得,要给予,必须先拥有。口袋里只有一块钱是无法拿出一百块给别人的。你只能分享你已经拥有的东西。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一味地掉入纠结与烦恼的漩涡,只是在助长父母带给你的烦恼,那无法帮助彼此。无须去烦恼他们的想法、他们的观念、他们的烦恼。正是他们的无意识让你产生 内疚感。而要改变这一点,你自己首先要变得</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/08/blog-post.html">有意识</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。总满足他们的期待会毁掉你,也会毁掉一个本可以透过你而发生的机会。</span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">对父母最大的义务和最好的孝顺,就是首先成为一个真正的生命,成为你自己,永远带着爱和喜悦,为整个生命去欢庆和狂喜,然后在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_9.html">灵性</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">上帮助他们。这是唯一能真正帮到他们的最好方法。</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"></span><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信201098065咨询。)</span></i></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #999999;"><br /></span></i></section>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-4456572069990099232023-12-17T09:04:00.000-08:002023-12-17T09:04:42.001-08:00把生命的主权交还给生命,便能收获无限可能<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbGvjEVFd0hYXLpPvxxMTW-tplYbcZC79mnC7LbviIu_eijNqK0UNrGze30DHj9x9GZbxj27Z4w3aYunCx-vLoDYE6pQry3T-Q8ZObo5cQBE1a3zefmHdQeMDAEuDt7AOc3-TaHrA8b89S6_n2iIn-zVxJqQ5ZzJzBfe6ujpkNPwGHmN1QYfWZ0zY-/s880/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230125120845.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; 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margin: 0px 0px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">有人曾问我“如何</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">臣服</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”?<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">方法</span>很简单——<span></span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">第一步,在生活中,经常去观察溪流中的一片叶子、空气中漂浮的羽毛或光线下的浮尘,<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">想象自己就是那片叶子、羽毛或灰尘——一个极其渺小的存在,在浩瀚无边的宇宙中安全地、自由地、无忧无虑地自在流动</span>;第二步,练习始终带着第一步的觉知,让自己在生活中开始自由自在地流动。可以从每天随心做出一个选择开始练习,不要让头脑参与进来。比如,随心选择一条自己想走的路,而不是去想“那条路是不</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是捷径,会不会比以往更加耗时,或者现在会不会堵车”等等等等。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">这是我个人根据自己的日常习惯反观后的发现,事实也证明<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">重复这两个简单的步骤的确是奏效的。我不知道当大家在试过第几次之后会开始有感受并发现不同、惊喜或奇迹。但就我而言,几乎每一次,都有不可思议的事情发生。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是的,我讲了“不可思议“四个字,但我并没有说每一次的发生都是“好的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”</span>或<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">“</span>坏的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”</span>。因为事实原本就是:来到我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post.html">生命中的每一件事,都只是经历,并无好坏</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。如果头脑还停留在只想经历好事,不想经历坏事的阶段,就需要回到第一步做大量的练习。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我们想要收获无限可能的前提,首先是把生命的主权从头脑那里交还给生命。</strong>否则,什么都不会发生。或者说,生命会停滞不前,而停滞就意味着死亡。当我们抓住不变的、陈旧的、僵化的、框架的......那些已死的东西不放时,就不可能有新的东西进来。也许有人认为有,但那只不过是头脑的自我欺骗。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一个人,当他对自己周围的一切都不为所动、漠不关心,甚至不知道该做什么时;当他觉得自己累了,够了,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_10.html">看透了</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,卷了时;当他认为自己尽力了却没发生任何改变时;当他一边带着某些内在的深刻渴望发生一些改变,一边又觉得这最终只是徒劳时;当他更倾向于蜷缩在受困、找借口、懒惰和迷失中时......他只不过是在头脑的二次元维度里做选择、决定和权衡利弊,他只是在糟糕局面中寻求最好的结果,仅此而已。这就是头脑所备有的一切了。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">但生命是远超出二元维度的三千大千世界的无限旅程,在这趟永无止境的旅程中,需要的是深入——深入地觉察、感知生命、连结</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/blog-post_39.html">本我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,这是让生命得以成长和进化的源动力。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/12/blog-post_25.html">当头脑为了避免那百分之一、千分之一、万分之一,甚至一辈子都不可能发生的“万一”时,就已经错过了所有的可能性</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。显然,这是将生命交付于头脑最大的弊端,也是我们最大的愚蠢。但可惜的是,显然我们大部分人都正处于此阶段。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">但我们无需为此而感到羞愧,生而为人,在我们学会说话之前,一些错觉就已经被植入头脑。接着,在我们忙着弄清楚自己如何成为自己的时候,另一些错觉又被植入了头脑。最后,我们认为自己始终在清醒地、有意识的、明智地做选择,而事实上,那只是头脑在选择接受错觉,因为那让它倍感舒适和欣慰。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我们都一样,这是生而为人无法选择的天性。但</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">即便如此,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">仍然</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">有一种力量,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">偶尔地,或经常性地在冥冥之中</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">指引我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">去摆脱</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一些错觉。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当在一次次抗拒变化尝到苦果之后,我们终会发现:变化、流动、前进是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post.html">宇宙唯一不变的真理</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。仅仅意识到这一点,愿意鼓足勇气训练自己积极配合宇宙的步伐就已经是值得肯定的进步了。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">这原本就是我们最擅长的本领,在头脑未参与进来之前,我们始终如此。现在,就让我们回归到初始状态,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">像微尘一般自由地漂浮吧,没有确定性,不知道将要去哪儿,失去了确定性,却换来了无限的可能。让生命从有限的二维生化到无限,仅仅只需要跟随自己的内心,从选择一条从未走过的路开始,就是这么简单!</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">勇敢并不是不顾风险的鲁莽,勇敢是我们愿意走出舒适圈、愿意为生命的成长主动承担风险的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post.html">意愿</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。没有了勇敢,人类不可能学会讲话;没有了勇敢,人类不可能学会走路;没有了勇敢,人类不可能学会打猎,没有了勇敢......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">人类今天所拥有的一切,都建立在勇敢之上;人类今天正在失去的一切,也都基于不再有意愿走出舒适圈,不再有愿意为生命承担起一丁点儿的风险所致。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">如果没有了风险,我们会怎样?——像现在或大多数时间一样,坐在椅子上想“如果......”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">想想小时候学习踩单车的过程;想想我们学习游泳时的感受;想想我们初次攀岩或跳伞的经历;想想所有那些深刻而难忘的回忆,它们无一不<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是在承担了相应的风险下让生命尽情<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">好奇、参与、体验和感受的经历,正是那些经历让生命</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">得以丰富和</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">绽放。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">这就是生命的意愿和状态。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">在生命的意愿下,臣服是自然而然的发生。只有在臣服中,才能收获生命的无限可能,那些惊险的、刺激的、有爱的、感动的、美好的、欣喜的、憧憬的一切,谁又能说这不是生命的馈赠呢?</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"></span><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信201098065咨询。)</span></i></p></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-12502935626589766512023-12-17T09:00:00.000-08:002023-12-17T09:00:40.469-08:00无知的爱是伤害终极系列——死亡<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUeomhCygCiNzvoegSziSMMh1QC6aDGWeghyphenhyphenWjN6436jCfvSZwmTGdhVwgGrknrQ3megV2EWJ0jksFaW5Rq99sS5ZgcYL5vogDEhoOae71UFE7BXyvBtxvtxxWGR54TVQq6mWpQ7q7XugRlQkbrTy2MBllzxHEt8Gwpctms4QFv9D7kC2aUgoLzkF74sc/s404/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="316" data-original-width="404" height="313" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUeomhCygCiNzvoegSziSMMh1QC6aDGWeghyphenhyphenWjN6436jCfvSZwmTGdhVwgGrknrQ3megV2EWJ0jksFaW5Rq99sS5ZgcYL5vogDEhoOae71UFE7BXyvBtxvtxxWGR54TVQq6mWpQ7q7XugRlQkbrTy2MBllzxHEt8Gwpctms4QFv9D7kC2aUgoLzkF74sc/w400-h313/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">如果不了解死,就无法了解生。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">今天,我想和大家探讨这个话题的最后一个部分。大家可以点击<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post.html">系列一</a></span></span>、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post_4.html">系列二</a></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post_97.html">系列三</a></span></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">回看之前的文章。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>系列四——死亡</b></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一直以来,</span>“死亡”是我“思考”最多的人生课题。其实,用“思考”来形容并不贴切,因为思考是“关于”某件事的行为,它<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">只是头脑在已知框架中所做出的种种假设,它</span>从来都不是直接的经验<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">(经历和体验)</span>。那什么才是对事物直接的经验呢?比如,有些事物,我们能够看,有些事物,我们能够听,有些事物,我们能够感知......这些都是直接的经验。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而“思考”却是一个陷阱,它是了解事物本质的一个阻碍。每当我们开始去“思考“某个事物的时候,就脱离了事物真正的本质。因为”关</span>于<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”什么总是是间接的。比如,我们想要了解一棵树,当我们开始”思考树“的时候,我们想的并不是树本身,而是”关于“树的东西,这个”关于“就变成了一个障碍,只要那些”关于“还在,我们就会错过那</span>棵<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">鲜活的树,我们无法真正的看到它、听到它、闻到它、感知到它,我们将永远无法真正触及那</span>棵<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">树,那个生命。看/凝视/端详/是直接的,触摸是直接的,感知是直接的,但”思考“总是间接的。一个思考者会不停地错过真实的存在,他只能活在头脑中,他无法活在实相中。</span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因此,不是思考</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">让我了悟死亡,让我</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">了悟死亡这个无形的维度的,是全然的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/01/blog-post_21.html">意识</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。这是一种完全不需要头脑思考的参与就能了悟的方法,每个人都可以在生的时候体验/感知到死,这是内在的生命始终如一的运作。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但是,如果一个人的认知仅停留在认同于自己就是现在的这个身体时,那他就只能局限在躯(肉)体层面来<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">理解</strong>生死(头脑层面),他无法了悟生死(意识层面)。唯</span>有在<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post.html">超越五感</a></span></span>的状态下,这一切才是可能发生的,而它的前提,就是静默。所有的局限和突破,都只有在<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/10/blog-post.html">静默</a></span></span>中才能发生。这就是生命留给我们唯一的功课。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>PART1——对生死的误解</b></span></section></span></div><p> <span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在我们的传统里,人们最忌讳谈论死亡,最大的原因是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/04/blog-post.html">对死亡的恐惧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,而所有的恐惧都源于未知。既然如此,那我们就必须去直面死亡、探索死亡、了解死亡。如果我们能够了解死亡,它就不再显得可怕,它就成了生命的一部分,我们每时每刻正在经历着的一部分。它就不再会成为我们所忌讳和逃避的事,而是成为我们</span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所接纳和祝福的事,以及成为</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命最美的部分之一。</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">绝大部分人都在恐惧中挣扎着寻求安全感。可是,在人世间,唯一安全的地方只有坟墓。这就如同在水中挣扎的可怜人一样,人们似乎都知道只有</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post.html">放轻松,别用力</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,不挣扎才能活下来的道理,但身处其中却无法抵抗习性(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post_96.html">业力</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">)带来的不由自主地挣扎。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section></section></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一代又一代人,被社会、政治、经济、文化、传统、宗教等等意识形态植入某种“程序”,那便是“拥有”和“永久”。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">环顾我们身边,有多少人一边害怕孤独终老,恨不能永世长存,一边紧抓着自己的儿女和财产不放,想养儿防老,以及以备不时之需。可他们并不知道,如果上天真的满足了他们,当那个永世长存的他看着身边亲人一个个离去,只剩他揽着财产孤身一人独自活着的时候,那才叫真正的孤独终老;环顾我们身边,无论男女老少,有多少人连“死”这个字提都不敢提?有多少人害怕看到自己的皱纹和白发,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">恐惧生病</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">?又有多少人甚至害怕看到自己的孩子长大变老......所有这些,都是对死亡恐惧和逃避的表现。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但凡是执着,必然会失去;所谓的永久,必然是死去。得到一些,必将失去另一些。这是宇宙的平衡法则,是谁也无法打破的恒久定律。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命是一个存在、行动、享受的过程,是一个永续流动的过程,而非一个</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_17.html">目标和结果</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。但问题就在于,大多数人只想要某个结果。人们</span>被这种极其狭隘、僵化的教条所训化,然后带着别人口中的“定义”又去“教育”下一代。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">大部分人也都满足于别人口中的定义和结论,他们活在定义和结论之中,并将其视为真理,甚至以</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html">累积了越来越多的“知(死)识(物)</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”而沾沾自喜,他们将此美化为博学多才。大部分人都在一生中力求表现出自己的“知道”和“拥有”。可生命并不是定义和结论,定义和结论意味着结(死)束(亡)。一旦生命被定义了,盲目和迷信就会肆意蔓延,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">之光就会永远被掩盖。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们谈论教育,但做的却是改.造;我们谈论爱,但做的却是占有;我们谈论生命,但做的却是禁锢......在盲目和迷信的洗礼下,我们口中的“教育”,不过是让一代又一代人在一潭死水中等死,仅此而已。而一代又一代人</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">也都总会相信并轻易地选择最容易的那条路——大多数人所走的那条路,因为</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_6.html">害怕未知的恐惧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人们并不知道,几乎所有的精神疾病都与不恰当地处理原始恐惧——“死亡”有关。当一个人的行为总是出于恐惧不安和防御机制的驱使而不是基于明确的意图和信念时,他就会处于某种精神疾患之中;人们更不知道,所有的习性都在巩固业力,迫使我们生生世世来到这个地球受苦。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在这个世界上,没有比“恐惧”更危险的“病毒”了。凡抗拒死亡之人,都会感染这种病毒并身处死亡之中。抗拒死亡注定经验恐惧,拒绝死亡就是拒绝生命。唯有不再寻求安全与保护,不再逃避与对抗,坦然接受与面对,全然地敞开和包容,愿意向生命之流纵身一跃去冒险时,“生”才可能发生。但这对于那些恐惧未知的人来讲是极其可怕的事情。要么生生世世活在恐惧之中,要么鼓起勇气面对生命,没有其他选择。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙充满仁慈,它给了我们最好的方式去体验和了解生命,只可惜大多数人都不想要。所有我们回避和逃避的生命课题,最终都将加倍回到我们自己身上,等待我们有朝一日能够有勇气面对和接受真正的人生,也等待我们终有一日能够触及生命的真相和源头。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">除非改变对生死的认知,否则我们将永远无法摆脱死亡。</strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">PART2——颠覆“死亡”的认知</strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有物质无一例外都会经历从有到无的过程,就像一部用了几十年上百年的机器,总有磨损、消耗和报废的时候。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真正的</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命,是超越身体和头脑物质层面的高</span>维<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">度存在——它既存在于身体里,却也超出身体之外;它既隐藏在肉体中,却也不被肉体所阻隔和限制。</span></strong></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">1963年,获得诺贝尔医学奖和生理学奖的约翰.艾克理爵士就在其获奖论文中说:“联系神经细胞并存在于他们中间的那些无色、无形状的东西就是意识。”他还说:“在人的身体内,确实有非物质的心识、意识,或者叫做心力的自我这种东西影藏者,在胚胎时期或极年幼时,这种”自我“就进入到人体内的大脑中。它能操纵大脑的一切功用,就像人脑掌控电脑一样。人所拥有的这种无色、非物质的意识,可以指挥、控制属于血肉之躯的大脑,它能让大脑的相关神经细胞从事在它指令下的具体工作。这样的非物质形态的”自我“或心识,在大脑死亡之后依然存在,并仍拥有生命活动的形态,而且可以永生不灭。”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">1980年,著名科学家、心理学医生布莱恩.魏斯博士在其著作《前世今生》中这样讲道:“要了解生命不只有眼前所见的,生命在我们的五感之外还能延续。”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-weight: 400; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">西方智者密德在其所著的《死亡研究》一书中表明,“心不仅能离开大脑而自立,更能使用大脑、出现种种功能。”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">弗拉.曼宁在《死亡极其奥秘》中揭示:“心灵自有它的灵智,而且心灵是整体的,独立的,所以也是不灭的。”</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">心理学家荣格为《西.藏度亡经》又名《中阴闻教得度》的英文译本写序。他在其所著的《寻找灵魂的现代人》中这样说道:“与脑的关系不能证明心灵乃是副现象——因果地依赖生物化学历程的此等功能......脑之结构与心理学对于心理历程未提供任何解释。心灵具备不可化为其他事物的独立特质。”</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">哲学家叔本华认为:“死为物质生命的最后,而不是自己存在的最后。”</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">乔布斯曾向身边的每一位朋友大力推荐《一位瑜伽行者的自传》,他的挚友在其葬礼上为每一位前来参加葬礼的人赠送此书,这是乔布斯生前的愿望。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">《海奥华预言》也为人类揭示了宇宙的奥秘,展示了佛所说的三千大千世界中的其中一部分。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从我们</span>降生于这个地球并开始第一声啼哭时,死亡就始终伴随着我们,从未离开。这不是悲观和消极,这只是一个事实!因为<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">被生下来的,只是这个身体。一旦“把自己等同于这个身体”,随着出生的观念,死亡的观念也会随之生起。它们是互为一体的两面,就像一枚硬币的正反两面一样。</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“Stars can‘t shine without darkness.” 就像没有黑夜我们就看不见繁星,没有白天,我们就不知道什么是黑夜一样,生与死就是生命的两极,不停交互。它们不是对立的两个面,它们不矛盾,它们努力创造出生命,仅此而已。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们不仅需要知道身体的死亡不是一个事件,而是一个过程,还需要知道真正的生命是超越肉体的存在,真正的生与死并没有明确的界限,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post.html">这一刻,我活着,我也正在死去</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,而就在我死去的刹那,我又重新活着。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; line-height: 28.8px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命是连续的经验(经历和体验),“我/大我/自信/self”从未真的死去,也从未出生。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我/大我/自信/self”只是经历不同的阶段,循环往复,没有终点。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">瑜伽、阿育吠陀、佛学、易经、老子、庄子、孔子、哲学、神秘学、自然科学、宇宙科学、量子物理、催眠、心理学、精神病学、现代医学科学......无一不在探索关于生命的课题,他们都在竭尽全力为世人揭示宇宙生命的本源。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">科学精神就在于,推翻已知的结论,永无止境地探索和前进。正如<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">哥白尼推翻了被政.治和宗.教捍卫了长达<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">1400多年的日心说,而<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">日心说也在20世纪初被天文学家恩利埃塔.勒维特推翻一样,宇宙没有尽头,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命没有尽头,</span>科学没有尽头......</span></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人类一旦满足于已知,愚昧、痛苦和灾难就会重演。</span></p></section><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无数关于生命课题和有关濒死体验和轮.回转.世的记载,也都旨在让人类不要把视角放在恐惧死亡上,而是放在了解生命上。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">瑜伽科学体系认为,无论是个人还是更为宽广的宇宙,本质上,都是由五大元素——地、水、火、风、空五个不同的维度构成。</span></p><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们现在的这个身体被称为肉身/食物身Annamaya Kosha(顾名思义,以吃下去的食物来喂养的这个身体);然后是精神身Manomaya Kosha;接下来是能量身Pranamaya Kosha。前三者都属于生命的物质维度。肉身是最粗燥的物质,精神是精微的物质,能量是更加精微的物质。这就好比我们的肉眼能够看到灯泡,灯泡是物质,电流和灯光较其而言稍稍精微一些,但它们也都属于物质。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人生生世世的<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/blog-post_39.html">业力</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">/记忆就携带在身体、精神和能量上。业力虽然在某种程度上是一种束缚,但也因为业力物质,我们才能得以拥有身体并存在于此。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">第四个维度是以太体Vignanamaya Kosha;第五个维度是极乐体Anandamaya Kosha。以太体是从物质到非物质的过渡,它既不是物质也不是非物质,它是后两者之间的纽带。极乐体是非物质的,它没有自己的形态,它是宇宙的一部分。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命就像一个外面被业力结构所包裹着的空气泡泡,当气泡破了,那气泡里的空气就会成为空气(无限宇宙)中的一部分。可是现在,这个宇宙中的一部分被束缚在业力结构中。这就造成了一个假象,“我”似乎是一个独立的实(个)体,但那只不过是一个虚假的幻像。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人的业力结构被完全打破时,他就与存在融合了。这就是瑜伽所讲的三摩地,佛教所讲的涅槃,它们的意思就是“解脱”。无论他在生还是已经往生,他都已经获得了”解脱“,就像释迦摩尼佛一样,无论他活在还是死去,他都在极乐世界。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">解脱并不是“我”得到了解脱,而是脱离这个“我”,从身体和头脑的基本结构中跳出来才能得到解脱。</strong>只有能量、精神和身体都处于良好的状态才能保持极乐体(涅槃和解脱)。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">还有一些人,当他们完成了此生被分配的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/09/blog-post_27.html">业力</a></span></span>,或者说,当他们很好地交了这一世的生命功课成绩单时,就会在没有病痛、意外和受伤的安详状态下平静、正常的离开。他不需要在身体死后徘徊很久,就能很快(通常几小时内)找到下一个身体,并立刻轮回转.世。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">然而,大部分人的业力结构(习性、脾性、秉性)都非常强烈,大部分人都没有好好利用活在的时间了解生命课题,也没有完成生命的功课。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">此生的业力课题必须被完成,这是来地球的唯一目的。</strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果没有完成,业力的束缚又很深,他们死去时就需要更多的时间去寻找下一个身体,需要更长时间的过度阶段(佛教所说的“中阴身”),然后轮回转.世并继续未完成的生命课题。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我听过不止一次有人说他不相信<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">轮回</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">转.世</span>,说</span>如果人都<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">转.世</span>的话,地球岂不是要被人挤爆了?<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">其实,</span>提出这种假设的人正是掉入了<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑的逻辑陷阱,</span>忘了自己只是一个漂浮于宇宙中的小微尘。生命可以转化成宇宙间的任何物质形式,佛教归为六道,除天道外,人道是前世修得好才能得到这个身体。所以,不存在地球被人挤爆的问题。地球会重启也曾不止一次重启,但并不是因为被人挤爆才重启的。宇宙自有其平衡系统,理解生命,我们首先需要升维世界观。或者我们可以将其称之为”生命的转化“,这样理解也许就感觉科学多了。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有的生命课题都必须被完成,才能有机会前往更高维度去学习。这是宇宙的法则,是”上帝“的游戏规则。一个很形象的比喻就是,地球就像是幼儿园,人类必须在这里学会爱、善良、互助、慈悲、包容......等等课题并保持单纯和好奇才能前往更高维度去学习(进入小学),当完成小学的课题后继续到更高的维度学习(中学)......以此类推。如果每个阶段的课题没有完成,则需要重新回来不断重复学习直到完成为止。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命是永无止境的进化过程,它<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">给了我们无与伦比的美好,但我们却因为一个无法掌控的头脑而常常搞砸,</span>所有痛苦体验从来不是由生命引起的,而是由无法掌控的头脑和身体引起的。意识是超越头脑的感知的维度,它能让我们触碰生命的本质——循环往复,没有生死。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>PART3——肉体“死亡”时,会发生什么?</b></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b><br /></b></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有太多关于死亡的经典都有相关的记载,而且很多记载都有惊人的相似之处。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">例如,佛教认为人是由“地水火风”四大(元素)组成。因此,当肉体死亡时,同样也要经历四大的消散。首先是地大(骨骼、关节、肌肉感知的消散),接着是水大(临终者会出现大小便失禁,眼泪或鼻涕流出),然后陆续是火大和风大的消散。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">瑜伽、阿育吠陀认为人是宇宙意识创造及五大元素(土、水、火、风、空)构成,死亡就是五大意识回归到源头,继续天地万物宇宙循环的一个过程。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当死亡来临时,土元素(与佛教中的地大一致)开始消融,身体的固体感开始消散。身体变得无比沉重,身体的边界感(边缘)变得模糊,“在体内”的存在感也不再那么强烈。对印象和感觉不再敏感,无法随心所欲地控制四肢。肠蠕动变得缓慢,没有外力的辅助就无法行动。各个器官开始停止运行。当土元素继续分解,融入水元素时,便开始有了流动和液化的感觉。伴随着对身体的强烈认同,原本的坚实感会随之变成流动感。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当水元素开始分解融入火元素时,更像是一股热气在流动。液体的流动变慢,口腔和眼睛开始</span>变<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">干,循环减慢,血压降低。当循环逐渐变慢并停止时,血液停留在四肢末梢。随后便会有轻逸感。</span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当火元素分解融入风元素时,温和和寒冷的感觉消散,身体是否舒适已不再有任何意义。体温逐渐下降,直至身体冷却、苍白。消化也就此停止。轻逸感如同热量会升起一样,成为主导感觉并越来越精微,一切逐渐变得无边无际。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当风元素分解融入意识本身时,就会有一种无垠的感觉。比吸气时更长的呼气已融入到空中,这时已不再能够体验到身体的存在和功能,仅有无垠的虚空,生命融入到纯粹的存在之中。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">就这样,人类的神经系统回归到存在的源头。在那生命周期的终点,同时也是生命周期的起点。生命的真知就在我们每个人自己的神殿之中。也许每个人生来因业力的不同而过着不同的人生,但每个人,终究都要回到相同的地方——那个最初开始的地方。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不同记载中显示逝者在经历过渡阶段(佛教所说的中阴身阶段)时会出现不同的感受,有些感受非常痛苦,有些则平静而安详。我相信这些记载是真实的,之所以会出现不同的感受,是因为感受本来就是由<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">意识创造</a></span></span>的。就像我们在梦中无法觉察到自己在做梦,但却不得不面对梦中的一切感受一样,一个活在消极、恐惧、痛苦中的人注定会做恐怖和阴郁的恶梦。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但有一定深度冥想经验的人,就都能非常警觉、清晰地知道无论景象的美好与否、感受的恐怖与否,一切都是意识幻化的泡影。正如《心经》所云:“五蕴皆空”。可如果从未做过人生功课的人,对此是完全无能为力的。这就像<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">没有人能掌控梦何时来何时走,梦中会发生什么一样,</span>这就是业力的可怕之处,业力就是我们生生世世被困在地球受苦的原因,也是为什么我们必须在还活着的时候、还健康的时候就要全力以赴去做生命功课的原因。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>PART4——如何对“逝者”进行临终关怀?</b></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”临终关怀“对生者和逝者都非常非常重要!因为很多生命与我们共同生存在这里,只是它们存在于超越我们的五感之外的维度。如果逝者无法过渡到更好的生命阶段,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那么生者的世界也必然会遭受牵连。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个大环境的好坏完全可以显现出人们世世代代对待死亡的态度。如果人们从来不了解真正的死亡,如果人们总是被</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">迷信和恐惧占据主导,那生者的环境就总会充满越来越多的怨气和</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #202124; font-family: "Google Sans", arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">戾气。因为如何生决定了如何死,如何死也决定了如何生。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那些还没有来得及完成生命功课,或者还有很多根本就不知道有生命的功课要完成的人,在他们临终时,身边的家人该怎样去做呢?</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如前所述,人在经历死亡的过程中会经历不同阶段的消融。在这个过程中,意识会变得极为敏感,敏感就意味着极其容易被触动,好的方面和坏的方面都是如此。因此,作为逝者的家属,学会引导亡者走向平静和安详非常重要。</span></p></section><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我不会以任何带有宗教色彩的文字来阐述这一部分。有宗教信仰的逝者家属完全可以遵循逝者生前的信仰来完成这一切,比如,生前信仰佛教的逝者家属可以为他们诵读《西.藏度亡经》,引导他们顺利渡过每一个阶段,这将对他们有益。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但对于崇尚科学和无神论者来讲,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为他们一生都坚信某些东西,那些记忆深深地印刻在他们的能量和精神上。如前所述,当人死后,意识会变得极其敏感,因此,在这个阶段用他们生前所不认同的方式去引导他们,反而是非常愚蠢和危险的做法,这甚至会阻碍和伤害逝者下一段生命的进化。家属需要做的,首先就是尊重逝者,然后<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">尽最大努力引导逝者平静、安心、了无牵挂地离开。尽量多对逝者讲讲他这一生光辉、灿烂的时刻,欢乐有爱的时刻,告诉他这一生活得很值得,家人都爱他也都懂得照顾好自己,让他心中始终带着温暖、安全、爱与光明,没有遗憾、心无挂碍地离开。并不断为他祈祷和祝福。</span></span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我也从来不赞同什么”风光大葬“和”哭天喊地“的风俗习惯。所谓的”风光大葬“一方面不过是便宜了发逝者财的第三方(这也是我认为人类最大的愚蠢之一),另一方面<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">也只不过是给活人添面子,而那些”哭天喊地“大部分是出于依赖和恐惧,而不是爱。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”灵“所在的维度比我们所在的维度高级得多,试想当他看到家人为自己伤心流泪,茶不思饭不想,寻死觅活的时候,他想劝但家人听不到,他想安抚但家人感觉不到时,他该如何放心和安心地离开呢?如果他带着遗憾、悲伤、甚至恐惧和愤怒,那他一定会备受煎熬,因为在那个维度的他的敏感度会使遗憾、悲伤、愤怒或恐惧放大无数倍,那些负面能量会瞬间将他从”天堂“带往”地狱“。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们都知道在葬礼上人们会说”节哀顺变“。但却很少有人知道这句话其实是说给逝者听的。这是所有前来到访的亲朋好友送给逝者的关心——不要因为变化而悲伤难过,别再继续徘徊,顺应变化,尽快去到自己该去的地方。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人的快乐取决于别人时,那他的痛苦也会取决于别人。取决于别人就是依赖。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">爱,就请在亲人还健在的时候随时随地表达,爱的表达永远不嫌多。但请别在亲人离开时才去做那些蠢事。</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们可以爱,但不要执着,因为分离是必然的。把悲伤、难过与不舍换成祈祷、祝福、欢庆与喜乐。喜乐只存在于全然的、无条件的自由之中——那便是我们所说的“解脱”。解脱意味着绝对的自由,与自己同在就是自由,与自己同在就是解脱,因为我不再依赖外在的任何,也没有人可以带走任何,甚至连死亡都不能。死亡只能让这个身体与其他身体分离,它永远不能让我与自己分离。一旦我们学会了如何与自己同在,死亡就失去了意义,”我“才能真正变得不朽。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">唯有这样,我们才能成为爱,而不是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/02/blog-post_18.html">爱的乞讨者和占有者</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,我们才能成为光,才能为逝者带去宁静和光明,让他们有更多的时间和机会去完成下一段的生命旅程。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>PART5——像拥抱“生”一样拥抱“死”</b></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人类只有一种灾难,这种灾难注定了痛苦,那就是无知。”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">死亡“是人生的最后宣言。一个人如何度过这一生,完全可以从他如何面对死亡看得一清二楚。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">几乎没几个人能笑着死去,也没几个人能把身边人的死去当成一种欢庆,那在我们的传统中是不被允许的,是被排斥的甚至会遭到谴责和辱骂的事情。可是,只有成熟之人,真正懂得生命之人,才会笑着离开,才会祝福亲人的离开,因为他知道那是生命最宝贵和最伟大的时刻。只有当一个人还很幼稚、内心还未成熟、也尚未正在活过一天时,他才会哭着死去,才会紧抓着生命不放,才会一直逃避死亡。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个每时每刻都充分活着的生命不会惧怕死亡,因为他已经深刻经历了整个生命的全部过程,好的、坏的、美的、丑的,幸福的、不幸的......死亡对他而言只是一次难得的休息,他会带着满满的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; 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font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个生命如果每时每刻都活着,那就意味着他经历了从稚嫩到圆满的全部过程,他透过每一个时刻获得了挑战与冒险,他的生命获得了历练与成长。一个<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">硕果累累的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人,自然愿意分享他的成果,他再</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无所求,也自然会接受另一个未知的召唤而不会去抗拒它。</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那么对于未知/死亡,他也自然而然会视其为一扇向自己敞开的大门,他会想要去探索那未知。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans SC", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans SC", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">探索未知,趁还活着的时候,就去探索,这是我们每个人都该去努力去做的事情。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #202124; font-family: "Google Sans", arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">很喜欢电影《刺猬的优雅》中的台词:</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans SC", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”一切就像这样,一下子就结束了。这就是死亡,你再也见不到你爱的人了,你也见不到爱你的人了。如果这就是死亡,那就是人们说的悲剧。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans SC", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">重要的不是死亡,也不是在什么年龄死去,而是在死亡的那一刻你在做什么。追随星星离去,不要像鱼缸里的金鱼那样结束生命。“</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, HelveticaNeue, PingFangSC, MicrosoftYaHei, SourceHanSansSC, NotoSansCJKSC, WenQuanYiMicroHei, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">至少,让我们在死去时已经准备好去爱</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #191b1f; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Microsoft YaHei", "Source Han Sans SC", "Noto Sans CJK SC", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,或者,已经成为了光明与爱。</span></span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span><i style="background-color: transparent; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信201098065咨询。)</span></i></p></section></span></section></span></span></section>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-66731255244126592412023-11-04T00:46:00.004-07:002023-11-04T00:46:52.449-07:00为什么说“无知的爱是伤害”?(系列三)<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUeomhCygCiNzvoegSziSMMh1QC6aDGWeghyphenhyphenWjN6436jCfvSZwmTGdhVwgGrknrQ3megV2EWJ0jksFaW5Rq99sS5ZgcYL5vogDEhoOae71UFE7BXyvBtxvtxxWGR54TVQq6mWpQ7q7XugRlQkbrTy2MBllzxHEt8Gwpctms4QFv9D7kC2aUgoLzkF74sc/s404/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="316" data-original-width="404" height="313" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUeomhCygCiNzvoegSziSMMh1QC6aDGWeghyphenhyphenWjN6436jCfvSZwmTGdhVwgGrknrQ3megV2EWJ0jksFaW5Rq99sS5ZgcYL5vogDEhoOae71UFE7BXyvBtxvtxxWGR54TVQq6mWpQ7q7XugRlQkbrTy2MBllzxHEt8Gwpctms4QFv9D7kC2aUgoLzkF74sc/w400-h313/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;">对变老过于担心和抗拒,本身就是一种病。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">今天我们继续这个话题的第三个部分,大家可以点击</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post.html">系列一</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">和</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post_4.html">系列二</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">回看前两期文章。</span><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">系列三:老</span></p><section data-role="paragraph" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每个人都希望自己永远健康、年轻。没人喜欢生病和变老,因为它们是束缚生命的东西,但是,对生病和变老过于担心和抗拒,同样也是对<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命</span>的束缚,因为这种</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post.html">担忧</a></span>和<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_17.html">焦虑</a></span>本身就是一种病。一个人如果陷入难以自拔的担忧和焦虑中,就是在摧残这个身体,又谈何照顾呢?这是显而易见的。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">仅从这个身体角度出发,即便只在正确的饮食/瑜伽饮食/纯素食下,衰老就可以变得很慢。只是,我们习惯了听从头脑,而头脑是被投喂的机器,它从<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">权威、</span>广告、媒体、从众心理、攀比心、嫉妒心......那里累积所谓的“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html">经验</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”。于是,商家便能轻易地借由各种五花八门的保健品、营养素、护肤品、玻尿酸、硅胶、肉毒......从每个人的口袋里攫取巨额智商税。</span></section></section></section></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">很多人之所以担忧和恐惧</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/05/blog-post_22.html">衰老</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,是因为他们对生命的无知和无意识,是因为他们从未被教导过触及生命的现实所致。所以,他们才把自己深深地认同于这个身体,所以才没有机会去探寻</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">生命的其他维度</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。如果探索生命的本质并立足于其他维度,身体就不会成为什么大问题。因为那时,身体反而会变得容易掌控。但现在人们大部分的生命体验完全局限于这个身体,这个物质的身体。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我问大家“一朵花最漂亮的是什么时候?”几乎所有人都会说是它绚烂绽放的时候。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个生命,最美的时候,就是它成熟、开花、结果,到达生命巅峰的时候。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为在那个时候,它已经完全地经历了种子期、生长期到达成熟期,它的生命正处于巅峰时刻,那个时刻,就是一个生命最美的时刻。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不仅如此,它还能把自己的美与爱传递给这个世界。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人也是如此,幼年是种子,青年是青涩期,中年是成长期,只有到了老年,到了人生的巅峰时刻时,才能绽放出独有的美——那种经历了岁月沉淀后的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">自然</span>、优雅、淡然与</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">之美,那是在此之前任何时刻都无法比拟的美。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这本应是一个正常生命该有的样子,但可惜的是,绝大部分人的身体变老了,但他们的内在却还处于幼年或青年的青涩期,还未成熟。那内在本应在老年时闪闪发光的生命之光并未随着他年龄的增长而增长,相反,那生命之光正在一步一步地熄灭。我们看到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">更多</span>的是充满老年人眼中的防御、敌意、担忧、苦恼、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">恍惚、呆滞、怯懦,</span>而不是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post.html">光和希望</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">试问</span>当死亡的脚步一步步逼近这样的生命时,他又怎会不担忧、不害怕呢?</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人,如果他从来没有真正活过一天,他始终都带着面具在做别人,当他在得知自己已经没有时间的时候,恐惧就会随之而来。他恐惧并不是因为死亡本身,而是因为他从未真正活过。他害怕生病、害怕衰老,因为那是通往死亡的第一步。否则,当他是个孩子的时候,他每天开心;当他是青年人的时候,他满怀快乐;当他是中年人的时候,他感到满足;当他是老年人的时候,他充满喜乐。他的一生,是圆满的。这就是我对一个独立的生命关于“圆满”的理解。这种圆满与是否结婚、是否有孩子等等完全无关。所有借助外在事物而得到某些东西的行为都是<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/04/blog-post.html">依赖</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和自我欺骗。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那些把握生命的每一个片刻好好活过的人从不担心和害怕衰老这个问题,这对他们来说根本不是什么问题。他们老得优雅得体,他们的眼中有光和希望,他们像那绽放的鲜花一样处于生命的巅峰时刻,并将自己硕果累累的成果带给他身边的人。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可大多数人,他们的身体变老了,可内在却还没来得及开始成熟。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从懂事</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">起,大多数人就只学会了“妥协”——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">出卖自己的灵魂而换取分数、名誉、地位、金钱......为了一点点稍纵即逝的物质上的蝇头小利就能轻易地出卖自己,他们宁可成为某个大人物,成为某个人们眼中或口中所羡慕的对象,也不愿成为真正的自己。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个生命,如果能顺应</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/05/blog-post_25.html">生命之流</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">流淌,他一定能充满富足和喜悦地走向生命的巅峰。但大部分人都接受了妥协,他们<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命便流向了错误的方向。</span></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一位对中国人了解颇深的外国朋友说:“我很不能理解,为什么中国人都只想当富人/明星/权.贵,而不想当一个人?”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为大部分人都活在“应该”里。在这个世界上,最大的灾难就是想成为别人。一个带着别人的面具生活的人,是永远无法成熟的,因为面具是假的,是死的。而面具背后的那个脸庞才是真的。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可当一个人习惯带着虚假的面具活到老,当那面具老化、残旧、被人嫌弃和遗忘时,隐藏在面具背后的却是那尚未成熟的自己,那将是整个世界最可悲的事情。大部分人的成熟度都与之年龄极不相符,自然年龄/身体老了,可内在还停留在三五岁,七八岁,十几岁的样子。当一个巨婴长成面带皱纹的巨婴时,他自然会对任何未知产生恐惧和排斥,因为他不知道该如何面对、也害怕面对未知,所以他才会采取控制、强迫、占有、推卸责任等等一系列不成熟的措施来进行“自我保护”。而这种方式也将在他们的子女身上潜移默化地得以延续。事实上,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无论我们有没有在传承,传承一直都继续着。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">或有意识地传承精粹,或无意识地传承糟粕。</span></section><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><section data-role="paragraph" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">难道我们没有发现吗?我们大多数人口中的爱<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">都是以自己所认为的</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/05/blog-post.html">爱的方式</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">去爱。父母爱孩子和孩子爱父母的方式几乎<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如出一辙</span>——<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">父母对孩子的爱就是吃饱、喝好、穿暖、别生病、有钱花。反过来,大多数孩子也是这样关爱父母的,因为这就是他们所接受的关于爱的全部了,还能有什么呢?可是,这些所谓的“</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/09/blog-post.html">爱</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”,只是动物自然本能的一部分,它只是头脑所理解的爱,但那并不是。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">爱不是语言,爱如果在,它就在,爱如果不在,即便嘴上说着“我爱你”,对方也感受不到爱,这就是爱的神奇之处。所以,一个人究竟爱不爱另一个人,不是看这个人是否总是在强调他有多么爱另一个人,他为另一个人付出了多少多少,而是</span>要问被爱的那个人是否感知到了对方的爱,如果没有,那就不是爱。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人如果有爱,从眼神就能够感知到,从对方整体的感知就能感觉到,这就是语言为何不那么重要的原因,语言具有相当大的欺骗性。大多数人之所以被欺骗,就是因为头脑相信了虚假的语言,就是因为他失去了</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/04/blog-post_22.html">感知</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的能力。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果能从我们自己开始,先探索生命的更多维度,先体验和感知爱的能量,我们自然会以爱的方式去和父母沟通,也能将爱传递给下一代,等到我们年老时,会看着孩子们将那些智慧传承给他们的孩子们,那将是人生最幸福的时刻。而那时,才是被我称之为“天伦之乐”的时刻......<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命如此珍贵,我们应在深深的感恩和欢庆中活出一个生命原本的样子来。因为每一个片刻都是永恒,它消失了就永远消失了,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">永远不会再回来。而且,谁也不知道自己是否还会有下一个时刻,难道不是吗?</span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">充分地、充满觉知地活好每一个片刻,唯有如此,才不会后悔自己从未活过,从未爱过,从未享受过。生命一直在给予,就在我们读这篇文章的时候,就在我们意识到自己</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/07/blog-post_17.html">呼吸</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的时候,就在每一个我们意识到当下的时候,它一直在提醒我们生命的意义。一个全然活过的生命,没有悔恨、没有遗憾、没有不舍,他永远都是满足的,因为他极致地活过。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们尚且无法找到这种感觉,无法体悟到这种觉知,那么,就请多多观察纯真的孩子们。每一个孩子生来都是“智慧”的化身——<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">好奇、</span>活力、快乐和爱。而我们每个人都曾经和他们一样。只是家庭、学校、社会把每我们培养成了当今世界所需要的样子,而不是生命本身的样子。于是,生命之光逐渐熄灭取而代之的是对生命的迟钝(头脑越聪明,越喜欢算计的人离生命越远,也对生命越迟钝)。一个迟钝的生命,就只会上学、工作、结婚、生子、变老,然后,在死亡来临之时,才后悔自己没有一天做过真正的自己。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">向孩子们学习生命的智慧,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而不是告诉他们应该如何如何</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,这是生命繁衍的重要意义所在。不要自以为是地认为自己生了一个孩子,并不是那样。孩子只是经由父母而来到这个地球,仅此而已。如果我们都能深刻了悟这个道理,便会生出莫大的感恩之心,感恩孩子使自己有了做父母的机会,感恩孩子给了父母重新了解生命的机会,感恩孩子给了自己成长的机会。一个孩子如果失去了生命之光,正开始变得和父母一样迟钝,那一定是父母凌驾于生命至上,做出了“扼杀”生命的蠢事。</span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">至少,我们需要从现在开始就</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">学习</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">接受自己的真实面目,学习接纳自己还有很多不足,因为只有这样内在才能得以成长。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">接受真正的自己,意味着成为自己而不是别人。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">哪怕是一朵雏菊,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">也会</span>努力地分享自己的美与爱给这个世界,尽管在最美的时刻过后它的此生就要缓缓落下帷幕了,但它没有浪费每一个生命时刻,哪怕生命某个阶段的最后时光。现在,经过了生命最辉煌的巅峰时刻,它需要更深入地</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">休息了,因为它要为下一段生命的精彩旅程做好准备......</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">(</span><span style="background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #565656; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; 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text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRihAkvlRFuSuzJlh37aav-Gb6BbnCDX6Vyg_9tG64GUms3uu5IbZmg3WZNRd29FqL11WsQg5ayU3Ew6naOkTBrUrdPtDW8Zj05AypxSs_DffeKdmOXqNPexSkkWJ6VYNsHlpKy3XBUhP48SZz0Ac9k6oAapcMa1UIDkcWUdndUZNxHrk4dp2TcHfvNGg/s404/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="316" data-original-width="404" height="313" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhRihAkvlRFuSuzJlh37aav-Gb6BbnCDX6Vyg_9tG64GUms3uu5IbZmg3WZNRd29FqL11WsQg5ayU3Ew6naOkTBrUrdPtDW8Zj05AypxSs_DffeKdmOXqNPexSkkWJ6VYNsHlpKy3XBUhP48SZz0Ac9k6oAapcMa1UIDkcWUdndUZNxHrk4dp2TcHfvNGg/w400-h313/1a1bf7114274019.6037e0a786099.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当头脑消失时,意识就是整个宇宙。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #888888; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">接着</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/11/blog-post.html">上一期</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,今天我们继续探讨<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“</span>为什么说无知的爱是伤害<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">?</span>”</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">系列二:病</span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></span></div><p></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们的这个身体,是由<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">化学元素构成的</span>,所有的化学元素都属于物质范畴,瑜伽也称这个身体为“物质身”。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></section><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体的运作就像是一个肉体化工厂,食物对身体的作用是最直接的,从它进入口腔开始,化学反应就已经开始了。可见饮食对这个身体的重要性。似乎所有人都知道这个事实,所以我们才一股脑地去追捧和奉行那些专家、医生、营养师、各种小道消息和媒体广告等等等等。可是我们却忽略了最重要的一点——什么该吃,什么不该吃,什么应该在什么时候吃,什么不应该在什么时候吃,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/09/blog-post.html">我们最该听从的是身体</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在过去,人们会说“生老病死”。的确,当身体老了,就像机器用久了就会出现问题一样,人老了才会生病。但现在疾病的发病率已经开始年轻和年幼化,所以我们先来谈谈“病”。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">动物与生命的联结非常紧密,它们知道</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">什么<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">该吃</span>什么<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不该吃</span>,该吃多少不该吃多少,该在何时吃在何时停止</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。但在这一点上,人类反而不如动物,因为人类既丢失了本性又对生命毫无觉知,所以才会出现各种各样因错误饮食而造成的疾病。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">来看看那些发生在我们自己或身边人身上颇为熟悉的情境吧:</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——昨晚熬了一通宵,先来杯浓缩咖啡/浓茶提提神吧,等下还有会要开;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——拿保健品代替饭,觉得方便又健康;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——感冒了,赶紧吃点药,不然越来越严重了;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——过年了,感冒还没好,要不去输个液吧,好得快一点,不然过年哪都去不了,啥都没法吃;</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——过年过节了,要么一大桌海鲜,要么一大桌肉,那是必须的;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——喝酒伤肝,要多吃点营养素护肝保肝;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——最近流感季,提前吃点抗生素/输液预防一下;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——肥胖会造成很多疾病,所以我要节食;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——现在土地和水污染严重,食物都没什么营养了,要多吃点营养素;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——妈妈跟在正玩得开心的孩子屁股后面拿着汤勺喊:“快来,再吃几口”;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——我们对他人关心的表达最多的就是“多吃点”。生病了,“多吃点,病好得快”;心情不好,“多吃点心情就好了”;心情好,“也要多吃点,否则对不起这美丽的心情”......<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——胃溃疡,多吃点蛋白质;身体虚弱,多补充蛋白质;癌症,蛋白粉能救命......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无知的爱不仅是伤害,无知的爱还能“杀人”。有多少癌症病人在家人的“关心”下,一日3-5餐,餐餐营养搭配外加无数种保健品,不久之后就离开?我最怕听人说“医生告诉我什么都能吃”这句话。因为大多数的头脑对这句话的理解都是极为偏颇的。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体从来不需要头脑所想的那些东西!!!</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为头脑只想要一些东西,而不想要另一些东西......但</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_24.html">以头脑为出发所做的一切,都与生命本身相悖</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">尽管我们为这个身体已经做了自己能力范围内最好的事情——各种美食、轻食、荤素搭配、五花八门的保健品、各种疫.苗等等等等,但害怕生病的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_6.html">恐惧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">始终都在。难道不是吗?为了避免这种恐惧出现,我们不得不去追求头脑所认为更好、最好、还要再好的方式对待这个身体。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可是,疾病仍然该发生还是会发生,它只是换了一种方式和时间到达而已。于是保健品、药品、药店、医院有了更大的利润空间。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体本可以在自然状态下生长得很好,可就是因为<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/02/blog-post_14.html">小我</a></span></span>/头脑的“呵护”,过剩的营养、不均衡的饮食、过多的保健品、过度的干预......使得身体疲惫不堪,再加上日益堪忧的自然环境,使得<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">重金属、农药残留物、毒素</span>滞留在体内无法排出,最终导致各种身体上的疾病......然后我们又用更多所谓的健康美食、营养素或药物来帮助身体......</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们不但这样爱自己,也这样爱身边的人;</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体本可以在自然的状态下生长得很好,可在小我/头脑的“精心计算”下,过分的攀比、不切实际的追求、过度的执着、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">失衡的情感</span>......最终</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">导致各种心理和精神疾病。但很少有人会意识到自己处于疾病模式,甚至还把这一切当成自己的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">经验</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不断传承给下一代。我们就这样一代又一代无意识地传承着病态的爱。</span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身与心的相互作用导致身体与精神疾病的相互作用,那些伺机而动的病毒成年累月蛰伏在身体中,甚至不惜借助基因的繁衍就是在等待一个壮大自己的机会。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在这个地球上,除了人类,没有任何一种生命会患上心理精神疾患,植物不会,动物也不会(除非它被关在笼子受折磨),只有人类,会自己把自己逼疯。人类在“教育”模式下,开始把有关生命的一切问题变成了“怎样”的问题——怎样成功?怎样一夜暴富?怎样获得权力地位?怎样征服一个人?怎样赢得爱情?怎样更健康......然后,每个人都会把自己的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html">经验</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当成金玉良言传承给下一代,以避免让他们“受苦”,这就是我们所谓的“爱”。可是,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这里所有的“怎样”,没有一个与生命本身有关。</strong></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></strong></span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想要健康的活,首先要学会“好好吃饭”。多简单的四个字啊,可就是没几个人能做到。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们吃东西的时候是快乐的吗,还是因为不快乐才想吃?我们吃东西的时候是充满悲伤和忧虑,还是充满喜悦与</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">感恩</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">?</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">前面我提到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">食物对身体的作用是最直接的,从它进入口腔开始,化学反应就已经开始了。但事实上,它在尚未进入口腔之前,就已经开始产生化学反应了。如果我们在充满压力、伤心和忧郁中进食,那就算是吃了龙肉也会变成毒药;如果我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">能在充满轻松、快乐和喜悦的心情下进食,那就算是有毒的食物也可能被身体转化进而变成正确的食物。(<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">声</em><em style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">明:我并不是要你准备一杯毒酒,然后开心地喝下去看看会发生什么哦!</em></span>)所以,我们每天吃东西时头脑处于怎样的状态是很重要的。</span></span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不过据我所知,我们及身边大多数人,连吃饭都变成了“应该和必须”——到饭点了,应该吃饭了,或者必须吃点东西;晚饭时间,如果丈夫回家晚了,妻子很可能就在餐桌上抱怨他应该早点回来吃饭,她为这餐饭辛辛苦苦准备了好几个小时......而她却不知道她正在给丈夫和孩子,当然还有她自己的碗里倒“毒药”;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">总在餐桌上抱怨、吵架和生气的家庭,家庭成员的身体一定会出现问题,尤其是孩子。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_25.html">暴力</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">饮食其实还意味着带着愤怒、痛苦、忧虑、恐惧而吃饭。家庭中有意识的长者,一定会传承要喜悦地、感恩地吃饭,而不是把满桌子毒药灌进每位家庭成员的肚子里。如果偶尔在准备吃饭时发生了不愉快,那么请停止进食,等头脑恢复平静后再开始。身体可以饿一顿,一天,几天都没事,但是如果带着负面的情绪进食,那吃进去的“毒药”很可能几年也未必能全部排完。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们足够警觉,与自己的身体有足够的联接,就会感知到负面情绪产生时胃部发出的信息就是不饿了,不想吃了,饱了,那就是身体在保护自己,不要你喂毒药给它,但是很可惜,我们从来不愿意去倾听身体。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">正确的饮食能帮助<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/12/blog-post_8.html">脐轮</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">(太阳轮/太阳丛神经)</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">释放能量,而错误的饮食则会抑制<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">脐轮的能量。当我们长期都以错误的方式喂养这个身体时,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">脐轮的能量就会被封印,人就会只会关注头脑和情绪,并<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">用头脑所认为最好的方式去</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/05/blog-post_22.html">喂养和保护这个身体</a><b>。</b></span></span></span></span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">至少,请先让我们学会避免食用那些使人亢奋或麻痹意识的食物;避免食用干扰身体内在运作的东西;避免食用</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">让人变得无意识的食物以及对身体造成极大负担的食物。因为它们都是对身体有害的,尤其是当它们到达</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">脐轮</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的时候。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想要健康的活着,与好好吃饭同样重要的就是好好</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_27.html">观照</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">自己的头脑。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">每个人眼中的世界都不尽相同,因为每个人的头脑都有自己的运作系统,头脑就是一个人的世界,头脑有强大的力量凌驾在身体之上,头脑可以指挥身体里的每一件事情。它可以令身体健康,也可以令身体生病。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">一个人如果继续用</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post.html">头脑</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">生活,继续活在有限的空间里,那他将永远无法知道真相是什么。唯有当他抛开所有被投喂的东西,真相才能被知晓,那时头脑就会成为宇宙,它会与整个宇宙合一。当头脑消失时,意识就是整个宇宙。而那全然的意识,才能被称之为——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; 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font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有读者在看完<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/10/blog-post_11.html">上一篇文章</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">后问:“究竟什么才是<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/02/blog-post.html">生命的奥秘</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">呢?为什么说无知的爱是伤害?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这是个好问题!一直以来,我也很想写一些关于这个话题的文章,现在刚好等到这个契机。感谢这位读者!<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">回答这个问题,既可以从狭义出发也可以从广义出发;既可以回答得很肤浅也可以回答得很深刻。为了<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">尽可能详尽地阐</span>我的理解,我想从生老病死四个方面来和大家探讨这个话题。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">系列一:生</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="edit by 135editor" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><section data-id="130450" data-role="title" data-tools="135编辑器" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; display: flex; justify-content: center; margin: 10px auto; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; display: flex; flex-direction: column; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px 0px -12px -8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; width: 25px;"><br /><br /></section></section></section></section></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们可以从两个方面来探讨“生”,一是我们自己的“生”,二是关于孩子的“生”。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">关于我们自己的生命从何而来,并不是每一个人都思考过这个问题。对于每个思考过这个问题的人而言,对“生”的理解也不尽相同。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但至少,我们要意识到——</span>并不是每一个胚胎都可以称之为“生命”,因为不是所有的胚胎都是“活”的,它有可能在某个时间终止生长;也并不是每个<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">婴</span>儿都是“活”的,因为如果一个<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">婴</span>儿没有<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/07/blog-post_17.html">呼吸</a></span></span>,他就只是一个没有呼吸的身体,我们会说那是“死”的。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因此,当一个婴儿降生时,产科医生和父母最关心的就是当这个婴儿被拍了一巴掌之后他是否开始大哭(持续呼吸)。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">婴</span>儿,当他开始第一次呼吸/啼哭,他便“活”了。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那么,究竟是谁在呼吸?是<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">婴</span>儿还是生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)?</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">婴儿是无法自主呼吸的,这是最基本的事实。因为从来没有婴儿接受过任何关于主动呼吸的教导。每一个能够呼吸的婴儿,都是得到生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)祝福的孩子;对于那些无法呼吸的婴儿,那个婴儿自己对此无能为力,他的父母对此无能为力,医生也对此无能为力。人类从来都是无助的,要依赖整体/宇宙生命而定。我们必须了解和接受这个事实。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人的生命</span>并不是从降生开始算起,而是从呼吸开始</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">呼吸在,生命在,呼吸消失,生命消失。</strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">维持一个身体的生命随着呼吸(吸气)开始。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">伴随着这个看似简单却又神圣的吸气以及持续的呼吸,生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)便充满了这个身体的每一个角落。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">维持一个身体的生命也随着呼吸(呼气)结束。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)在每一个人的身体里面呼吸,而不是某个人在呼吸。</strong>它离开了,这个身体就变成了我们口中的“死”。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: var(--articleFontsize); letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“如果人的第一个呼吸是由宇宙生命注入身体之后产生的,是由<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)</span>来完成的,那么,其他每一个依靠呼吸而存在的东西就不可能是“某个人”的行为。”智者如是说。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们认为有一个“我”在呼吸,那就颠倒了认知,因为颠倒了认知,所以产生了<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">自我/头脑/小我/ego</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">;如果我们认为有一个“我”在做一些事情,那就活在无知里。自我是累积的无知。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑/自我/小我会说:</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“是我在呼吸,呼吸就是我把空气吸进来再呼出去,因为我的身体需要氧气、并将交互后产生的二氧化碳排出体外”等等等等。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可是小我却无法决定自己什么时候以及能否呼吸第一口和最后一口气;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">小我无法理解既然身体需要氧气,为何当</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)离开身体后,即便再以正确的参数持续往肺部注入氧气也无法令他起死回生......呼吸是一个活动,而不是某个人的行动。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一旦我们开始了解真相,就会发现,原来无知与清醒就像颠倒黑白的世界,当自我/头脑/小我出现时,生命就会流向错误的方向;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而当意识觉知到自始至终都是生命(宇宙意识/神性/整体)在做每一件事,是它透过这个身体在做每一件事时,我们就</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post_24.html">活在清醒之中</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">佛学、道、瑜伽所传承的生命科学体系始终在教导人们要关注呼吸,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而不仅仅是在头脑</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">层面思考它。</span>因为有呼吸就有生命。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">瑜伽将“气”称为Prana,它的含义就是“生命力”。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">对于身体而言,“气”只是空气在肺部进进出出,而实际上,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">气”是存在于身体中最</span>深入的生命力。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体只是<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们肉眼不可见的</span>宇宙生命<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">(宇宙意识/神性/整体)</span>的那个暂居地。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每个人都能透过行走坐卧进入生命并与它合一,“合一不是一个多么高深莫测的发生,它简单到无论我们在做什么,只要觉知到“气”的进与出就好。(我们可以</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/12/blog-post_8.html">自检</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一下,每一天,自己有几个刹那是觉知到呼吸的?又或者,自己已经有多久没有意识到呼吸这件事情了?)当意识始终觉知/关照呼吸时,那么在某个瞬间,就可能会与无限产生联接。只有在那时,我们才能了悟<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命是一个超越身体和头脑的高纬度存在——它既存在于身体里,却也超出身体之外;它既隐藏在肉体中,却也不被肉体所阻隔和限制。</strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">否则,我们都将桎梏在自我/小我之中,凌驾于生命之上,一边承受着</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_26.html">头脑监禁之苦</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,一边扼杀着孩子的生命力。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">为人父母,一旦了悟了生命的本质,就会<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">像滋养一颗种子一样去</span>支持和滋养孩子,只会给孩子爱的浇灌,只会传承尊重生命、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">臣服</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命的教导,只会告诉孩子要喜悦的活着,而不是给他灌输父母自认为对的方向或理想。一旦父母思考并介入该如何帮助孩子成长,那他就是在囚禁孩子。因为“如何”便意味着寻求方法和技巧,但爱既不是方法也不是技巧。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">花草树木、鸟兽禽虫都生活得很好,生命自己知道他该怎样成长。父母唯一的义务以及他们唯一能为孩子所做的,就是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/03/blog-post_29.html">用爱去支持孩子</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">了,没有任何其他。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而我所讲的爱很可能与大多数人所认为的爱不同,这个爱蕴含着父母极大的勇气和智慧,他们必须接受孩子终有一日要离开自己去过独立生活的勇气,并且能够帮助孩子尽早独立,而非想尽办法阻挠或把孩子绑定在自己身边“奴役”他们;他们也必须面对自己终有一日会失去一切的勇气。当他们能坦然面对这一切时,他们便具备了智慧。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每一个孩子都不是为了要实现父母的理想/梦想,或者为了迎合父母的喜好而生的。父母对孩子最大的残忍,就是根据自己的欲望和野心去塑造孩子,而忘记孩子也有自己的灵魂。孩子</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">需要过他们自己的生活,他们应该为自己的生命欢庆。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">父母应该帮助他们去倾听自己的心声和需要。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">否则,那口中的爱就变成了“捆绑、禁锢、控制、暴力、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; 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box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">扼杀一个生命的诸多可能性,就是一种控制、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;">一种残害、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">一种暴力、一种禁锢,</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;">那就是对生命的犯罪。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">在我们的成长过程中,不乏诸如此类的”关爱“与”教育“——<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">你懂什么,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">听</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">大人的话没错;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">你</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">还小,等你长大了就知道我(们)这样做都是为了你好;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我拼死拼活还不是为了你?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">就按我说的办;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">你现在不能学/做这些,你最重要的任务就是......</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">任何一件事情,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">哪怕是出自于好意,但如果是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">将自己的思想强加于孩子(或任何人)身上,或者总是想阻止别人做自己想做的事情,那就是罪大恶极!</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">请不要认为我的言语过于极端,如果对“生命”稍有认知,就会知晓——扼杀一个生命的诸多可能性,就</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">是一种控制、一种残害、一种暴力、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一种禁锢,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">那就是对生命的犯罪!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">很多人都曾经或正在这种暴力和禁锢中成长,还有更多人,正在以这种极端、错误的方式来表达自己所谓的”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/03/blog-post_29.html">爱</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">“。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每一个孩子都带着宇宙生命的特质来到这个世界,或者我可以这样描述</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每一个承载着小宇宙的来到这个世界上的生命都是父母最好的礼物,也是父母最好的老师。</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></strong></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">那些了解生命奥秘的父母,总是会把与孩子相处的每一个瞬间都当成自己宝贵的经历和财富,不仅仅是为了</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">孩子,而是因为</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">孩子为他们创造了一个遇见全新的自己的机会。</strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">他们知道孩子只是透过他们来到这个世界上,而他是独立的个体。他们会感恩孩子选择了他们作为父母;会感恩孩子给了自己一个可以重新了解生命奥秘的机会;会感恩孩子给了自己一个可以拓展生命认知的机会......这一切,只有在完全了解生命奥秘的前提下,才能深深地被了解。否则,人们就会<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_25.html">本末倒置</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">地活在自以为是的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_21.html">幻象</a></span></span>之中。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每个孩子身上都具备与生俱来的深刻的接受能力,这是生命智慧的自然体现,这种智慧原本存在于每个生命之中。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">孩子具备这世界上最单纯且最具</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的能力,他们单纯但并不愚蠢,他们的智慧来自于他们的直觉/</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">感知力</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,而不是智力、知识、经验或理智,那是超越这一切的“超能.力”。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每一个孩子都</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">纯净、感性,开心就笑、伤心就哭。但成年人的世界不同,有些人虽然在笑,但他的心里很可能在哭;而有些人明明在哭,但心里却很可能在笑。很多成年人甚至骗过了自己,认为自己笑就代表开心,哭就代表伤心。甚至,他们的哭和笑通通来自于“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/07/blog-post_24.html">应该</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">”,这与机器无异!</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">但孩子们更清楚自己喜欢亲近谁,不喜欢亲近谁,谁比较有爱,而谁又会让他觉得可怕......一个假装爱孩子的人,哪怕他能骗过他自己,哪怕他在嘴上说了一万遍“我爱你”,孩子也依然能够<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">感知</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">到他的爱是真的还是假的。他能感知到一个人是在真开心还是假装在笑,他能感知到成年人是否在伪装,他能感知到自己究竟有没有真正被爱......</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">这种“超能.力”本是宇宙赐予每个人最珍贵的礼物,但是随着成长,大部分人把它给丢了,因为学习了太多所谓的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">知识,累积了太多所谓的<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html">经验</a></span>,任何事情都以头脑逻辑来衡量,以理智行事。然后,每个人都自认为自己成熟了。但其实,那所谓的”成熟“不过是一种”被改zao"和“被程式化”,它沾染了太多与生命相悖的习性,并正在误导我们走向一个错误方向——与生命真正成熟截然相反的方向。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_10.html">一个人的头脑越理智,他就越缺乏看清事物本质的能力</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。因为生命的本质并不是头脑中二元思维中的一个答案或喜好,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/04/blog-post_22.html">生命是多维度的存在</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一个鲜活的生命是闪闪发光的,是想要探索的,是乐于</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post.html">冒险</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的。如果一个孩子失去了生命本该有的好奇和鲜活,那么他就正在失去生命力,一个失去生命力的生命,一定是处于</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/10/blog-post_29.html">痛苦</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">之中的。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">虽然孩子</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">在年幼时仍需要监护人的看护,但那仅限于身体方面。父母可以引导孩子,但是前提是要懂得如何才是正确的引导——至少,强迫是不正确的,干预是不正确的,说教是不正确的,体罚也是不正确的。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">作为监护人,父母</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">唯一能为孩子做的正确的事情,就是给他全然的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">自由——让他去探索、去成为自己、不干预他的自由、不强加于任何东西在他身上。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/blog-post_14.html">父母是孩子人生初期最重要的支持和信任来源</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,一旦当他们得知父母的爱是有条件的,又或者父母的爱是一种伪装,他们就会不再信任这个世界,他们也必将在这个世界上遭受更多的苦难。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a data-itemshowtype="0" data-linktype="2" hasload="1" href="http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzIwMzk2MzA5MQ==&mid=2247488416&idx=1&sn=a2a946a26c65da3b0ede1abd1a1051cf&chksm=96c63c1ca1b1b50a9ab23109e507e62b3e85006534b87ac0558c22050561dc84d401daf55049&scene=21#wechat_redirect" imgdata="null" imgurl="" linktype="text" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" tab="innerlink" target="_blank" textvalue="爱孩子"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">爱孩子</span></strong></a><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,给他全部的自由,这就是全部。无需费力去教会他什么,<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post_24.html">生命始终知道它自己该做什么</a>。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">就像一朵玫瑰花一样,它自己知道什么时候需要水分,什么时候需要养料,什么时候开花,什么时候凋零,它没有头脑,但它知道一切。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">而一个受过教育的头脑往往而会<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_26.html">妨碍生命的成长</a>。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 32px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">只要给孩子爱与自由,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">他</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">就会成为这个世界上独一无二、永远无法被</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">他人所</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">替代的生命。(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; 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margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">语言是思想的表达,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_23.html">思想</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">是意识的化身,其背后的秘密就是每个人的潜意识。语言的力量不可小觑,一个人的习惯性用语就是一个人</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post.html">内在世界</a></span></span>的外在体现——即他的命运轨迹。<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人常常把带有抱怨、敌对、自责或指责等等的习惯性语言挂在嘴边时,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他的命运通常会比较坎坷。当然,他也不明白为何命运总是对自己不公平。越是如此,他就越是比其他人更加想要控制自己的人生。可是,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_26.html">他越是想掌控,他的生活就越是失控</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。最后,连<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他自己也</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不明白为何总是陷入一个似乎永远逃不掉的怪圈;为何总是不由自主地做出让自己后悔的事;为何总是言不由衷地说出让自己后悔的话;为何常常一边怨恨他人一边又责怪自己......</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">也许</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">大多数人并不知道,这个怪圈,就源自于我们的“信念系统”。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">信念系统是在我们年幼时的经历中开始不断形成的。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">我们大部分人,都可能经历过不止一次监护人对我们人生错误的影响,比如:</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">小时候,当我们很想得到父母的肯定时,换来的却是“获得这么一点儿小成绩就沾沾自喜“或者”不要太骄傲了”等等之类的”教导“;当我们需要父母的鼓励和支持时,换来的却是“你怎么这么没用/傻/笨/懦弱”等等之类的嘲讽;<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们需要父母的帮助时,换来的却是”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">你怎么连这点事都做不好“等等之类的责备</span>......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">我们所有人的生存策略和处事模式都源自于幼年时期。对于一个年幼的孩子来说,如果在成长经历中因为家庭、学校或社会环境的原因,没能接受到关于“如何正确地表达自己的需要和需求”的正确教导时,就会</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/06/blog-post_27.html">依靠自己对尚不能完全理解的世界,做出自己的理解和判断,于是或隐藏或压抑自己的情感与需求</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">可是,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">对我们进行“教导”的那些人<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,无论他们是谁,他们都是在根据自己的主观判断而下结论,而那个结论并不能与</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">我们真实的自我价值划上等号!</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;"></span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">甚至,很多时候,他们的价值观都是扭曲和错误的,连他们自己也不知道自己曾接受了错误的“教导”并延续了下来。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">如果年幼时的我们对他们所谓的“教导”信以为真,那么那<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">颗有毒的种子就会深深地埋在我们幼小的内心。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们每一次的自我排斥</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">、自我否定、自我厌恶<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">甚至自我憎恨,都是在给那颗有毒的种子灌溉和滋养,使其<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生根发芽,茁壮成长</span>。</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这就是</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">信念系统(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/09/blog-post.html">潜意识</a></span></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">)形成的过程。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">这一系列内在活动引发的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post.html">能量场</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">,又会不断地将那些与我们童年发生过的类似不堪经历吸引过来,以至于让我们真的相信”我<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不行、不对、不好、无能、总是错的、不配“.....然后,像是被施了魔咒一般地</span>不断重复这一死循环——</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">明明很喜欢一个人,却总表现出对他的不屑一顾的样子;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">明明渴望爱人的理解或拥抱,但却说出攻击对方和伤害彼此感情的话;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">明明觉得对方很优秀,却总是对其嗤之以鼻;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">明明很讨厌一个人,却表达出言不由衷的恭维......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">每一个被压抑的情绪和感受,最终都将以或内化(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html">攻击自己</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">)或</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/07/blog-post_24.html">外化</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">(攻击他人)的方式体现出来。最可怕的还在于,那些不由自主和言不由衷的背后,都隐藏着深深的“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/01/blog-post_26.html">敌意</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: start;">/恨意”,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这就是令我们深感困惑的原因!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">我们无法改变他人的信念系统,无法改变他们对我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">强迫性和限制性的表达,比如“你必须、你应该”......也无法改变他们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">喜欢打压、控制、质疑、嫉妒、憎恨、蛮不讲理......的处事方式。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">因为那就是他们,是他们头脑中的信念系统使得他们说出了那些话语、做出了那些行为。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">但是,重点在于我们自己的头脑里运行着什么样的信念系统?如果</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">我们的头脑中也运行着与他们相同的信念系统,那不也正说明我们活成了自己最讨厌的模样吗?</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">所以,无论我们现在多大年纪,青春期、中年或是老年,与其去抱怨自己的原生家庭或成长环境,把一切责任都推给外界,不如就此做出改变——</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">每一次,当我们即将脱口而出</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">这些自我批判或批判他人的话语时,我们可以</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">换成另一种形式的表达,比如:</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">把“应该”换成“可以”,这样一来,就变成了一种选择,可以这样,也可以那样,这样是好的,那样也不错。有选择,就是有自.由;</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">把“我怎么连这点小事都做不好”换成“我相信我自己,我可以处理好这一切”;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">把“我怎么这么笨”换成“我是聪明伶俐的,我很优秀,我是被人喜欢的”......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">曾经被错误对待的我们,从现在起,要学会与自己内心那个曾经备受伤害的小孩对话,告诉他——“你想得到爱和关注是很正常的情感需要,那不是懦弱的表现,你值得爱与被爱;你很好;你很优秀”......同时,也学着去观想那些曾经给自己错误引导的人们,学会原谅并告诉他们——“感谢你给了我痛苦,现在我懂得了痛苦是成长的契机,感谢你给了我这个契机让我成长。我不会责怪你,因为我知道你已经尽了自己最大的努力在爱我,谢谢你,我爱你。”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">印度大师巴巴吉曾留给人们这样的教导——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">找到你无意识的五个关键点:</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; white-space-collapse: preserve;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">1、当我在别人身上找到错误时,其实最需要改正的是我自己。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">2、当我劝说别人的时候,其实就是我在怀疑我自己。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">3、当我体验着人生当中的挣扎时,我就是在否定自我创造的责任。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">4、当我感受到分离和孤独的时候,其实是我没有去宽恕。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;">5、如果人生中有一些境况不停发生,就一定是有我的功课要学到。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们需要意识到,人生是由一系列不间断的选择组成的,我们所做的每一件事,都是自己的选择。愿</span></span>我们都能在智者正确的教导中,找到真正的自己,成为真正的自己,活出真正的自己!</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Ubuntu, Cantarell, "Noto Sans", sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; 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box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">凡人所羡慕、崇拜或爱慕的,皆不是真正的你。</span><span style="color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">——埃克哈特.托利</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #888888; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br /></span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个婴儿,当他饿了的时候就会哭,每当再次尝到甘甜的乳汁时,便会满足地睡去。他知道自己需要的是什么,哪怕他还只是一个连眼睛都尚未完全睁开婴儿。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但大多数成年人,却往往意识不到自己真正的需要。“<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">饥饿”与“觅食”原是本能,但大多数人</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">却意识不到自己的“饥饿感”从何而来,因为在他们的身体和感受之间有一个障碍物——<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_13.html">头脑</a>。</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他们被头脑的某些机制所阻碍,永无止境东一下、西一下地去寻求快乐和满足,却怎么也找不到。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">大多数人终其一生都在寻觅,他们能感觉到自己缺失了些东西却不知道那是什么。当然,他们以为自己知道。而心理学实验证明那又是一个大多数人宁可被电击也不愿去想和思考的问题。久而久之,他们便逐渐适应了那种缺失,因为头脑不愿也不再去想、去思考,那让它感到痛苦万分。于是,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/01/blog-post_21.html">逃避</a>、遗忘和转移注意力就成了最舒服的替代品。从那一刻起,他们就开始走上了试图透过从金钱、工作、大房子、豪车、权利、爱情......方面弥补缺失的穷途末路。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“聪明反被聪明误”的当似乎人人都上过。头脑自以为聪明地得到了那些就满足了,却意外发现一个接一个的都是始料不及。当拥有了之后才发现,更多的问题、麻烦和<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_6.html">恐惧</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">也接踵而来。毕竟,但凡得到的都害怕失去,那恐惧反而更深了,空虚感更强了。因为他们发现达到预期意味着完全没有达到预期,缺失的东西仍然没有被满足,反而缺得更多了,该有的都有了却得不到满足,这让他们感到更加的恐惧和不安。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">智者曾说:“在这个世界上,没有什么比成功更失败。”因为一旦你成功了,就意味着你来到了失败的边缘。那些不成功的人至少还有个盼头,可是你已经那么成功了,还能盼什么呢?<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因此这个世界有一个很有意思的现象——没钱的人在追求金钱和成功,成功的人在追求<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧和开悟</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">;落后地方的人们都在追求物质生活,发达地区或国家的人在追求<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post.html">精神信仰</a>。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">大多数人都在寻找一条捷径——快速成功或一夜暴富的捷径,却没有人愿意探寻和发现生命的捷径——自己究竟缺失了什么?而那是一个连嗷嗷待哺的孩子都知道的事实,可是,这个世界上大多数<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">受过教育的</span>人,反而不知道。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人们宁可越过千山万水,历尽千辛万苦甚至不惜变成行尸走肉地追求满足,结果到头来一无所获,甚至,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">从“追求”的那一刻起,</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: "Microsoft YaHei"; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/11/blog-post_26.html">痛苦</a>就已经伴随其左右了。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">目标不是终点,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_17.html">目标存在的意义</a>仅在于在追求的过程中让内心引领自己找到真正的自我,因为感受才是灵魂的语言,而灵魂是生命的代言,一个缺失了心(灵魂)的躯体,只是一部机器,是能够随处移动的死物。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">只有跟随内心的生活才会变得深刻——那美是深刻的;爱是深刻的;痛也是深刻的......而所有的意义都在这些深刻中体现着,包括我们寻求的一切,都在其中。因为那本来就是<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post_24.html">作为一个完整的、富足的生命</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的某个面向,它们原本就在那里,自始至终都没有离开过。它们一直在等待人们的发现,而不是追求。一旦开始向外追求,人们就只能走上与它背道而驰的那条路,将永远无法得到,除非,人们开始愿意走进来,从内在去发现。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑想要的很多,而内心想要的很少。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">幸福和满足,并不是因为拥有的很多,而是因为想</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">要的很少。</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果一个人无法意识到自己无意识的欲望所造成的贪婪,他终将遭遇各种不幸——身体上的,心理上的,精神上的。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">去发现那个简单、纯粹、未经加工的事实,这个过程,就是触及真理的过程,也是获得幸福感和满足感的过程。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 24px 8px 40px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><i style="color: #565656;"><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信201098065咨询</span></i></span></section><p><br /></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-83353934459572538112023-09-16T00:12:00.005-07:002023-09-16T00:12:42.573-07:00祈祷和吸引力法则相互矛盾吗?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWQkAri7PNu2nvnkpYwkhn0WJK46JjmcxNR1WpsZqreXJ0JR-o2NOdZo6Ryjjm0ikXQf7KzewS61AIMsJbRGwPf2JOCV4JEibO_QpcFm-jYDU2dTqeMojDj6mKlczrnComUw44niYulpsoM7PjUQVB8S1v7mZLPSn7YUmHEWHH_yU-Npq3tn8AMLqoIzY/s299/%E4%B8%8B%E8%BD%BD.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="168" data-original-width="299" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWQkAri7PNu2nvnkpYwkhn0WJK46JjmcxNR1WpsZqreXJ0JR-o2NOdZo6Ryjjm0ikXQf7KzewS61AIMsJbRGwPf2JOCV4JEibO_QpcFm-jYDU2dTqeMojDj6mKlczrnComUw44niYulpsoM7PjUQVB8S1v7mZLPSn7YUmHEWHH_yU-Npq3tn8AMLqoIzY/w400-h225/%E4%B8%8B%E8%BD%BD.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真理永远存在于语言、文字和逻辑之外,</span><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;">它是最纯粹的体验。</span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/09/blog-post_6.html">上一篇文章</a>之后,有读者朋友提出以下<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">问题</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">:</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“1、祈祷和吸引力法则矛盾吗?是不是祈祷是对围绕在我们身边无形力量的求助,而吸引力法则是我们自己的美好愿景?但吸引力法则算是求助吗?(它毕竟使用的是宇宙间的能量呀)</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">2、世界上是不是不存在矛盾,都是和谐与统一?</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">3、吸引力法则与咱们老祖宗说的“命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求。”的关系?(矛盾?)</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这位朋友在三句话里面提出三个"矛盾"来,这足以说明他目前的心理状态也经常处于有意识或无意识的纠结或矛盾之中......之所以如此,是因为他</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想(思考)得太多而体验得太少</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所致。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">包括过去的我在内,我们绝大多数人在发问之前,都<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">极少先去体验</strong>,这是我们一代一代被”训化“的结果。我们都在等某人、某个权威或某位神.明给我们一个正确的标准答以便于我们按部就班地去做。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">老师都喜欢爱提问的孩子,因为爱提问的孩子聪明。但是,聪明人的最大障碍就是很难接近智慧。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为他被开发的是头脑、思维和逻辑,而那正是通往</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的最大障碍。这也是现代教育最彻底的败笔——大家都在争先恐后地学做聪明人,而非智慧之人。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">言归正传。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们曾深入地体验过</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">静心</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,就能够体(觉)会(察)到,无论祈祷与否,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/1.html">吸引力法则</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">始终都在运作,这是宇宙能量的守恒定律,它从来不会出错。它的特点就是</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">相同频率能量之间的相互吸引</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">能量从一极到另一极的转化</strong>。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们的思想和身体是宇宙能量场中极小的一部分,大脑思考时释放的电流会影响整个身体的能量场。因此</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无论祈祷与否,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">身体(思想)无时无刻不在产生自己的能量场,我们所有肉眼所见的“现实”都只不过是我们自身能量场的显化结果。所以,我们看到有人乐观有人悲观,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有人快乐有人悲伤,</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那统统取决于他们自身的思维方式。当他们的思想所释放的能量与</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙生命能量所产生的高阶振动频率相一致时,他们的生活就会更<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">顺遂,而当他们的思想<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所释放的能量与宇宙生命能量所产生的低阶振动频率相一致时,他们的生活就阻力重重。</span></span></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">并不是说积极乐观的人遇到的事情都是“好”事。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙间的一切都只是发生,并无好坏之分</strong>。积极乐观的人之所以更加顺遂,是因为他们积极的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_23.html">思维方式</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他们不区分好坏,只是顺应变化,而顺应变化就是宇宙的秘密。</strong></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但头脑逻辑会区分好坏、利弊,会衡量,会想要和不想要,会喜欢和不喜欢,它始终与宇宙生命能量相悖.....这种割裂就会产生消极的(负)能量,也会让生活更加艰难、不幸和痛苦。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人能够意识到这一切的发生,或者当他发展出全然的意识时,他的能量场就会毫不费力地与宇宙</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">高频振动合一,他需要的一切都会被满足。因为他和宇宙是“一,合一”。但是,当一个人还没有全然意识到这一切,或者还不足够有改变的力量时,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">正确的祈祷</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">就能够帮助他。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为当一个人懂得正确祈祷时,就意味着他知道自我的渺小,懂得放下自我,愿意放下执念,他开始变得谦卑和<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post_20.html">臣服</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">愿意接纳生命并成为宇宙中的一分子,而这是另一种与宇宙合一的方式。仅这一个改变本身,就蕴含着巨大的能量——与宇宙生命契合的能量,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这个能量就能帮助他。</span></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因此,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">祈祷和吸引力法则</span>之间并不存在任何矛盾之处。宇宙敞开它的怀抱随时欢迎我们回家,它也给了我们不同的方法以便于我们能够找到回家的路。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙只是存在,个体只是存在,人、事、物......这世间的<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一切都只是存在</strong>。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“矛盾”是头脑逻辑的产物</strong>。而</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_31.html">头脑是永远喂不饱的怪兽</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,当它尝到了被投喂的甜时,就永远不会满足。而所有的投喂对生命本身而言都没有任何益处。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">第三点,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">命里的“有”或“无”完全在于</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每个人如何理解它。如果只是以被动的方式等待“有”的出现,那显然我们迟早会成为一个放弃生活和堕落之人。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所谓的命运,是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><b>每个当下的选择所串联起来的经历和体验,这个过程被称之为创造。</b></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们有意识和有意愿地做出选择时,这个能量就会创造和显化出“有”,该有的迟早都会有。当我们臣服于宇宙生命顺应变化时,越来越多的可能性就会出现,甚至当<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们不再期待或执着某个结果时,会发现得到的比原本期待的“有”更多,或者</span>原本没想到会“有”的自然而然也有了。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">而这个过程,恰恰如前文所述,完全取决于每个人的思考模式,即他自身的能量振动频率。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑总是有问不完问题,总是有诸多矛盾。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们需要逐渐发展出“究竟是谁在发问”的意识。</span></strong></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们仅从头脑逻辑概念和定义的角度出发来寻找答案或寻求真理,那必将是失败的。因为<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真理永远存在于语言、文字、逻辑之外,它是最纯粹的体验。</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">凡语言、文字能描述,逻辑能理解的东西都只是事实的投射而非事实本身。</strong>悉知这一点至关重要。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果说在这个世界上,有任何一个人,一个权威或一位神.明告诉人们他所说的就是真相,就是终极答案,就是真理。那他一定是个骗子。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"> 佛说:”如果有人说我讲过佛法,那他们就是诽谤我。” 佛陀的意思就是说,凡用语言说出来的东西就不是佛法了。真正的殊胜体验,需要靠自己亲身体悟。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">但是为了帮助大家理解,以便于更好</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: black; font-family: arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">地<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">体验,语言又是需要的。</span></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在这里,我只能浅谈自己对这些问题的理解。我希望大家看完之后,放下、丢掉、忘记它,然后自己去体会和经验。如果有一天,有人能告诉我他们对这些问题自己的体悟,那么恭喜,他们已经触及了真理。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 16px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><i><span style="color: #999999;">心理、亲子、情感、疗愈、星盘解析服务,请添加V信:201098065</span></i></span></section><p><br /></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-87569231554389224172023-09-06T01:35:00.000-07:002023-09-06T01:35:03.711-07:00人生最大的悲剧和灾难是什么?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuQBrO2QKc6n1h_IpYZbT0vvD2pA5vGu8c57HyscVUXYvJe5GoCPxrxKPyujdzLpaSEQSb6f4srfpEWOf34t9PvrJHbGNT0FcnbJ5o7N23mv8n1E9arQ1Bgda0_hcUqGB5VTR5W2skfxpgLSkgIetPdt5K3VlN5YnMzf5tBnZJ-3bBbbC79uBEFsaxwuM/s640/0.webp" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="445" data-original-width="640" height="279" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiuQBrO2QKc6n1h_IpYZbT0vvD2pA5vGu8c57HyscVUXYvJe5GoCPxrxKPyujdzLpaSEQSb6f4srfpEWOf34t9PvrJHbGNT0FcnbJ5o7N23mv8n1E9arQ1Bgda0_hcUqGB5VTR5W2skfxpgLSkgIetPdt5K3VlN5YnMzf5tBnZJ-3bBbbC79uBEFsaxwuM/w400-h279/0.webp" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">人生的功课就只有一件事——</span><span face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;">练习进入未知</span><span face="system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; 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text-align: left;"><br /></span></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">我们都<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">曾</span>或多或少听说过,很多人在生命尽头后悔<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">自己</span>白白浪费了这一生,后悔自己没有一天是为自己而活,后悔自己想做的很多事情都还没有去做,后悔自己执着的某些东西让自己迷失并错失了与家人和爱人相处的时间......在生命的最后时刻,他们仍然执着于生命,因为他们还不想死,可是,他们已经没有时间了。<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">在这个世界上,时间对于每个人而言都是最公平的。每天24小时,我们用它来做了什么,完全取决于我们自己。可以说,是我们每一个当下的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_9.html">选择</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">串联起来造就了我们的人生,而那正是我们所谓的”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post.html">命运</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">“。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一个人,如果真的要等到生命结束的那一刻才明白和承认自己不想死这个事实,那真的是一场悲剧和灾难。悲剧是因为他白白浪费了宝贵的一生,灾难是因为他此生所有的一切习性,都将深刻地影响他们进入下一段生命旅程。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">死亡之时所做的事会决定一个生命如何出生;同样,一个生命终其一生习惯做的事情也将决定他如何死亡。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">无须借助上师、古鲁、神、上帝之口,也无须依附任何宗.教、神.学,仅从科学角度,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">成千上万经历过<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/03/blog-post.html">濒死体验</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的人们几十年来都在告诉我们一个不争的事实——<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/10/blog-post.html">生(灵)命(</a></span><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/10/blog-post.html"><span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">魂</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">)依附却又独立于身体,而且它是永恒的存在。</span></a></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">生命宛如一场盛大的交响乐,<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当一个人即将离世时,我们都以为他生命的章节结束了,因为我们都曾被这样教导也同样这样教导下一代。所以我们害怕、不舍、悲伤、痛苦</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">、难过、</span>哭泣、留恋......但事实上,那只不过是整个交响乐其中的一个乐章,而那个交响乐有无数个乐章。当一个乐章淡出时,另一个全新的乐章便准备再次响起。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">所有的濒死体验者都有相似的经验——自己在生命最后片刻离开身体,看见自己身上所发生的一切,然后就在顷刻之间,自己一生的片段开始回放——那些自己记得和不记得的、留意到和没留意到的所有片段,就在顷刻间逐一在他面前经过。他们看见自己的喜怒哀乐、悲欢离合,<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">挫折、痛苦、期望、失望、喜悦、满足</span>以及所有尚未被满足的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post.html">欲望</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">等等。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">当一个人充满喜悦和满足结束一个篇章时,他不会有任何执着和留恋,因为他人生中的每一刻都已经物尽其用,他已经习惯每时每刻去迎接新的变化、未知和挑战,他也会自然而然地去<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">迎接全新和未知的东西;可是,一个始终没有被满足的、仍然怀揣着欲望,甚至带着<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">后悔、</span>痛苦和仇恨的人,他的生命就会主动走向他</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_31.html">执着</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的那个目标。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">那些充满喜悦和满足离开的人们,会把死亡视作一个巨大的祝福,他们满怀欣喜和感激,带着爱离开,所以安详且平和;而那些紧紧抓住生命不放的人最后都充满着巨大的恐惧。恐惧是因为他们终其一生都在想方设法地拥有和掌控,而在人生的最后阶段,他无法再继续拥有,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_26.html">无法再掌控</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">任何了。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">恐惧仅仅只意味着一件事:失去已知,进入未知。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">所有智者教导我们要去经历和体验</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post.html">人生的意义</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">就在于此。那个习惯、习性就是我们的命运。如果我们足够幸运、足够</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">,就知道不能再这样继续下去了;就知道必须从此刻开始生活而不是继续浪费生命了;就知道从现在开始,人生的功课就只剩一件事,那就是<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">练习进入未知</strong>!</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">那意味着每一刻都</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">要做好迎接新的、不同的 、甚至是不喜欢的事物中。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">如何开始练习?很简单!每当自己遇到一件事情时,每当自己需要做出选择时,永远都选择那个不熟悉的、未知的、甚至是看上去有点<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post_24.html">冒险</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">的。每当自己觉得挺不过去的时候,记得向宇宙祈祷,但是我们必须学会<strong style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">正确的祈祷。</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">曾经,有一位一贫如洗的苦行僧,他身患癌症,日渐消瘦。因此,他每天都向神祈祷:“神啊,如果我的业力使得我必须在我的生命中承受这一切错误,请赐予我力量吧,让我能够忍受它,我不在乎你是否会把困难从我的生命中消除,但只要给我力量,我就能忍受痛苦。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">正确的祈祷,不是乞求神把那些自己不想要的东西从我们身上拿走,不是祈祷觉醒,不是祈祷想要得到,而是像那位僧侣一样,祈祷让自己获得勇气和力量,能够穿越自己正在经历的一切处境。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">每一次的蜕变都是一次死亡和重生的交替。人生中越是能够蜕(练)变(<span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">习</span>)自(死)己(亡),生命的状态就越是自如与顺遂,那个人生的死亡才能够最终转化为一场具有启发性的生命经验。<br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; padding: 0px;">一旦我们这样做了,就会发现自己越来越具备勇气,生活也越来越是自己所要的样子,虽然成长的路上总是伴随着生长痛,但它会让生命避免因逃避痛苦而永远活在苦难之中。</span></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-61615069404037305752023-09-05T05:38:00.002-07:002023-09-05T05:38:19.581-07:00怎样才能遇见一个全新的、越来越好的自己?<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwpkwZTjZ1eJDSE63P7hOMq8A1Z6s72jDiQQB9GoLM52fyY7TTLaDK8b5DVNC3---JtMZHsdgpRuc_XJfBzPFPUGNwhSMNdKjUxAlboITLrh7DCAd30wv0mI_8FRhnOwB4IueFOdu7OjJFs2ydliAfLdG-Nxd-GMjTk5VhaBqkkdYE3ecn4tzQt0H3d54/s1000/202302281677547258227109.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1000" data-original-width="1000" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwpkwZTjZ1eJDSE63P7hOMq8A1Z6s72jDiQQB9GoLM52fyY7TTLaDK8b5DVNC3---JtMZHsdgpRuc_XJfBzPFPUGNwhSMNdKjUxAlboITLrh7DCAd30wv0mI_8FRhnOwB4IueFOdu7OjJFs2ydliAfLdG-Nxd-GMjTk5VhaBqkkdYE3ecn4tzQt0H3d54/w400-h400/202302281677547258227109.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;">允许,而非排斥。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><br /></span></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们每天照镜子时,脑海中会出现哪些声音?<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">——<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我胳膊上的拜拜肉应该再少点儿就好了,从今天开始,我要恢复运动;我必须要让腰围再瘦一圈,我要开始减肥;我的脸色应该再好看一点,我应该好好吃饭了;哎呀,我有白头发了,我<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">应该注意饮食调理了</span>......可是,我们很却难付诸行动,或总是虎头蛇尾。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">又或者,我们似乎从来没有真正仔细端详过镜中的自己;还或者,我们根本就没意识到自己很少照镜子或者讨厌照镜子......<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">无论我们对号入座到上述情况的哪一个当中,都表明:在<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/06/blog-post_23.html">潜意识</a></span></span>中,我们是<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">厌恶自己</strong>的!</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">难道我们没有发现吗?我们对目前的自己总是百般不满,嫌三嫌四,不是眼睛不够大、就是鼻子不够高,总觉得哪里有点瑕疵或不对劲,还有待完善或改进......所以各种基础护肤、彩妆、保健品伺候着。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们以为这是爱美的表现,但恰恰反映出我们的不自爱。</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">爱自己的第一步,就是丢掉所有的“必须”和“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_24.html">应该</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”,完完全全接纳自己现在的样子,喜欢现在的自己。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果有勇气,想要<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/07/blog-post_25.html">真正爱自己</a></span></span>,就请先练习照镜子。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">对着镜中的自己,坦诚地说出自己看到了什么?——怀疑的目光?不自信的眼神?不自然的神情?不够精致的五官?僵硬的肌肉?还是难看的笑容?......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">接着,感受到什么?——难过?<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_19.html">羞耻</a></span></span>?厌恶?反感?......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">再接着,留意脑海中出现了哪些声音?——我不<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">喜欢这样的自己!我不应该是这个样子!还是连看都不敢再看自己?</span>讨厌极了现在的自己?还是开始怨恨自己出生在一个没有爱的原生家庭?自怜<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">自艾</span>善良换来了什么?又或者嫉妒凭什么别人总比自己漂亮、富有、过得好?......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们能意识到从头到尾这一切的发生,那么请恭喜自己,因为我们已经开启了爱自己的那扇门,透过那扇门,我们将能遇见一个全新的、越来越好的自己!</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人,只有当他有机会<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html">意识到</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">这部分的存在<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">,并承认在镜中所看到的东西,</span>他才能重新将这些能量投入到更加积极的方向,最终少一些</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/07/blog-post_70.html">自我厌恶</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">,多一些自爱。这也将为日后</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/1.html">吸引更多美好的人事物</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">而打下坚实的基础。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">允许,而非排斥。这是让一切变得更好的不二法则!</strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">允许自己现在的样子、允许自己现在的状态、允许自己现在所处的环境......不要对自己苛刻,慢慢地,我们会发现,镜中的那个人,目光开始变得温柔起来,嘴角开始浮现笑容,面容开始变得慈祥,感觉也会带着沉稳与安全......一切都变得无可挑剔。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">不要让自己觉得是“我在照镜子”,而是去感受“镜中有一个充满温柔眼神、带着迷人微笑、充满爱的人在看着我”。带着这样的觉知去做练习。慢慢地,我们会</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_24.html">感受</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">到能量逐渐回归并滋养自己。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">生命最终的目的不是要变成一个完美的模样,因为并不存在真正意义上的完美。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命最终的目的</span>是为了不断地接近生命本身而去<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“练习”,</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">这个过程就是我们所说的经历和体验。行动就是练习,它让生命得以成长和进化。当然,停滞不前也是练习,它让业力越来越深,痛苦越来越多。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">我们排斥、讨厌、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">慌乱、</span>害怕是因为<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不知道下一刻等待自己的将会是什么。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;">所以我们害怕的不是结束,而是新的开始,我们害怕的是</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_6.html">未知</a></strong></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;">和不确定感。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;">就在我们踌躇不前的时候,现在已经过去。就算我们不想、不敢、不愿前进,未来也依然在犹豫和踌躇中持续到来,然后再过去。所以,无论我们愿意与否,都只是时(头)间(脑)中的一个体验者,而体验什么,要怎样体验,完全在于我们自己的选择。其实,现在(此刻)除了存在什么也没有,唯一的经验/体验就是永续不断地向前走。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;">除非,我们开始去行动并完成已开始的事情,否则我们将永远也不会知道结果。</span></p><div><br /></div></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-21605944314840979032023-08-23T01:14:00.004-07:002023-08-23T01:14:56.689-07:00一个孩子的心里话,戳痛了很多父母心<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK9IT2aFX8gGGGYDW-7BtHINJbVU67E77ljB_adQyvdTA16o7bJjMuAF7TR8wiWu0Ccfx_h9askTk0xSC_VJPeExDdeieoBsWHJss_BZommtAZqUeCk8m6NW9SDfOy4ONgYNt3stX-Hmx0FZDz5U_gkFahJBqqhkX8mKgLp3Derxhn1pGXvLltsUeVN_I/s564/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230822200703.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="564" data-original-width="564" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK9IT2aFX8gGGGYDW-7BtHINJbVU67E77ljB_adQyvdTA16o7bJjMuAF7TR8wiWu0Ccfx_h9askTk0xSC_VJPeExDdeieoBsWHJss_BZommtAZqUeCk8m6NW9SDfOy4ONgYNt3stX-Hmx0FZDz5U_gkFahJBqqhkX8mKgLp3Derxhn1pGXvLltsUeVN_I/w400-h400/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230822200703.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为我们都担心自己不够好,不被爱,不安全。</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所以,我们从小就学会了不断向他人</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">证明:“我懂、我了解、我明白、我知道......”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一位青春期的孩子跟我说:“我觉得自己的生活很无聊、很无趣。”他半葛优躺式的窝在那里,目光空洞而呆滞,笑肌僵硬。在他身上,我完全看不到这个年龄段的孩子本该有的青春活力与积极向上的状态。<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我说:“那你就多去探索,否则,你将永远无法体会到生活的乐趣。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他问:“那要怎么去探索?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我问:“你平时是怎样得到一个问题的答案的?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“从爸妈、其他人、书本、老师那里。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我问:“你觉得那些答案能让你满意吗?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“不能。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我问:“为什么?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“他们说我现在唯一最重要的事情就是好好学习,只有这样,我以后才能过得幸福快乐。可是,我爸妈以前都是他们班里最优秀的学生,但他们现在一点儿都不幸福,一点儿都不快乐。“</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我问:“为什么这样讲?”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“他们三观不合,每天不是吵架就是冷战。我爸看不惯我妈一见他们领导就喜笑颜开、阿谀奉承的样子,我妈看不惯我爸满脸清高、一副傲慢的德行。现在他们唯一能达成的共识就是每天盯着我的学习成绩......我们老师一天到晚也是愁眉苦脸的,除非我们的考试成绩很好。我看不出他们有了那么多知识以后有什么快乐的.....”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我问:“那你还想要继续从他们那里得到答案吗?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他迟疑了一会儿,答道:“我不知道。我就是觉得自己很无聊,不开心。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我说:“带着你的问题,尝试着自己去寻找和挖掘答案,这个过程就是探索。否则,你将永远活在别人、书本上的知识或你父母口中,你将永远活在别人的世界里。如果持续这样下去,那你的人生将会成为一场灾难。因为当你一直活在别人给你设定的特定世界里时,当它与你的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/04/blog-post_22.html">内心<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真实的渴望</span></a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不符时,就会产生冲突,它会让你产生疑惑却又不知道为何会这样。它甚至会让你怀疑自己,让你不知道自己是谁。最终,也会让你昏昏噩噩地与大部分人,甚至与你的父母、老师一样,最终迷失自我,成为一部“机器”。我不是在贬低或攻击他们,而是让你明白“自我的独立性”。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_9.html">每个生命都是独一无二的</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,试着找出你最热爱的事物,去体会、观察、欣赏,研究它,去投入到那个事物中,看看会发生什么变化。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他说:“我踢球的时候就很开心,但他们说那会影响学习,不让我去。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我说:“所以,要学会</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/09/blog-post.html">感知身体与自己的对话</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。每当你踢完球感受到愉快,之后的一段时间里,你是否能感受到身体和心情的放松?是否感觉到学习似乎来说也不像是个沉重的包袱?甚至对某些功课还会保持莫名的兴趣?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“是啊,踢完球之后会很开心,觉得做作业的效率也更高了。我喜欢外语和美术。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我说:“好,就是这样,试着将你的这些感受(上面这句话)告诉你的父母。如果他们真的爱你并真正关心你,会倾听你的。但是,要记得一点——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">让自己过得幸福和快乐,知识是需要的,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它可以在不同程度上为我们打</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">开新的大门并拓展新的视野,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但学习知识的目的,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">并</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不是要向外人展示和炫耀。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果抱着那样的心态去</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">学习,人们除了攀比之外就只剩</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">羡慕嫉妒恨了。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“对,我们班上现在的所有人就是在攀比和竞争。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我答:“你也看到,无论学习好坏,大家都不怎么开心,对吗?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他答:“对!”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我说:“真正的“学习”,就是不断去</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_31.html">探索未知</a></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。在探索的过程中,你会发现快乐就在那里等着你。所以,尽管去试试看。比如:当你学外语时,不是总是逼着自己背文法和单词,而是在遇到每一个情景时,问自己“如果我是个外国人,在这种情况下会怎样表达”。这就是探索。在这个探索过程中,不仅会让你在不经意间重温文法,拓展新单词,而且还更容易记住;再比如,当你画画时,多尝试采用不同的视角,多用自己以前从未尝试过的风格,大胆使用自己根本不敢使用的色调,或者采用更夸张的手法,随心所欲地尝试看看又会怎样?要知道,所有的新奇乐,通常就隐藏在这些探(玩)索(<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">乐</span>)的过程中。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_10.html">会玩的人才会创造,会创造的人才会快乐。</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他眼神开始变得明亮起来,并点头说:“好!”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">接着,我说:“一个真正有高度的生命,会主动去尝试探索和学习各种各样新的体验,而在这些体验中,就会学到更多的知识,这不仅仅局限于书本上的知识,还包括生活中各种各样的知识。当生活中遇到一些疑问时,有一些答案是可以借助书本来帮你找到答案的,比如</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/09/blog-post_5.html">月亮</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和地球的距离,地月运行轨道等等。化学、数学、几何、物理、天文等等这些学科都能帮助你更好地理解我们所在的这个世界。再<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">比如一些更贴近生活的问题:为什么要避免使用杀虫剂、除草剂之类的化学品,以及为什么要更少地接触日化产品等等,这些都可以透过化学、生物、自然课本找到一些线索和答案......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但更多的时候,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">书本给不到你</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">更究竟的答案,而那就需要你继续努力去深入探索了。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">比如,科学</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">家为何</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">会说'</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">失去了数字,宇宙便不存在'</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,'</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">整个宇宙都是由完美的角度</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">构成的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">'等等之类的话。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所以,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">尽情去探(玩)索(乐)吧!</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">也许有一天,你会发现,你甚至可能会忘记了踢球或者没有时间去踢球,因为你找到了更多让自己快乐的东西,踢球成了快乐中的一部分而非全部。那时,你就已经处在真正的快乐生活之中了,你不需要等到以后,要从现在就开始快乐起来。当你开始行动,开始尝试时,快乐就已经在不远处等着你了。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他的笑肌依然僵硬,但仍笑着说:“好!如果我爸我妈要是能像你一样懂这么多却还能这样跟我说话就好了。他们什么都不懂,只知道每天教训我。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我答:“与我们生存的这个宇宙相比,我们不及一粒</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/12/blog-post_25.html">微尘</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的大小,一粒微尘所知道的,能有多少呢?!知道什么并不重要,就像我前面跟你讲的,我们探索和学习的目的,不是为了炫耀给别人看,而是我们自己在这个过程中获得了快乐与成长。你的父母他们都非常优秀,他们在不同领域有着成功的经验,他们只是欠缺了一个成为成功父母的学习机会,我们每个人都有所欠缺,不是吗?那就请给他们一个机会,允许你自己也允许他们和你一样有成长的空间,都能成为更好的自己,好吗?”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他的眼睛开始闪烁着光芒,并回答:“好,谢谢你!”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最后这段话,写给父母们:</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们唯一能为孩子们做的,就是引导他们对生活产生持续的兴趣并热爱生活,而不是为了....去</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">打压他们。而这个前提,建立在我们自己首先对生活保持好奇的基础上,因此,教育孩子的前提,就是不断的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/05/blog-post.html">自我成长</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">我明白我们都曾因为担心自己不够好,不被爱,不安全......所以,从小就学会了不断向他人证明“我懂、我了解、我知道......”而那恰恰意味着我们根本不懂、不了解、不明白,甚至不知道我们自己是谁......作为父母,首先我们需要认识到并承认自己在某些方面的无知和不足,否则,我们无法</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/06/blog-post_15.html">与孩子平等相处</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">玩就是创造,创造意味着生命力,这是每个人的天性。扼杀它们,就等同于扼杀了一个人的天性。愿此文能给所有有机会看到它的孩子和父母们,一个携手探索未来的契机,让我们一起玩(探)乐(索)吧~!</span></p></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-19726814560372232502023-08-15T07:12:00.002-07:002023-08-15T07:12:33.518-07:00只要做到这一点,就能避免“抑郁”的折磨!<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn-KL_76MHXBDSjT13SrT2AiMqHBWSaffOH2ohT_HSlSstlOMpY1AeU-fjbmpY-Izo8M7L9ADQlRG5uaw8b2yEuMYIvm6V0LTdeWnBkQLkGb99vqYmk3u3DgHdQhyaIDzMOzPOAAjVgcHCGyZSJc5osKkmKcnQneSzFdKAGYTU6BovuFTdj-yMmkpwdCw/s640/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230814174311.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="458" data-original-width="640" height="286" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn-KL_76MHXBDSjT13SrT2AiMqHBWSaffOH2ohT_HSlSstlOMpY1AeU-fjbmpY-Izo8M7L9ADQlRG5uaw8b2yEuMYIvm6V0LTdeWnBkQLkGb99vqYmk3u3DgHdQhyaIDzMOzPOAAjVgcHCGyZSJc5osKkmKcnQneSzFdKAGYTU6BovuFTdj-yMmkpwdCw/w400-h286/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230814174311.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">当一个人无法被满足时,就会陷入抑郁。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></div><p></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从心智层面看,抑郁就是因失望、绝望或缺乏自尊而产生的对周围人事物失去信心与热情的一种表现。<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></section><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们大部分人都活在“明天会更好”和“越来越好”的假象中做着黄粱美梦。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们以为当自己拥有了这个或那个时,结果就会变得不同。当我们把这个“假设”当真时,就会满怀热情地去追求那些所谓的“美好生活”。在此过程中,我们紧盯着自己想要的目标,却忽略了周遭的一切。</span></span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们希望在"追求"中,自己所有的渴望都能够被满足,那是我们唯一的目标。</span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">然而,</span>当我们的第一个</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_17.html">目标达成</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">时,我们会发现,那短暂的快乐稍纵即逝。于是,我们继续相信“明天会更好”和“越来越好”,继续去追求另一个目标,以便来满足我们的渴望。</span></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们征服了梦寐以求的职业岗位、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">积累了一笔又一笔的财富、或者拥有越来越大的权利......到头来,我们最终还是会发现,生活并非想象中那般,我们感受到的只有越来越大的压力,越来越多的焦虑,越来越多的矛盾......</span></span></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个一心只想攀越到顶峰的人,当他站在顶峰时,除了脚下的石头,他什么也得不到。因此,他会</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/04/blog-post.html">怀疑</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">、会失望甚至绝望。那是因为,他一心只想着目标,而错过了沿途的鲜花、绿树、美景,他忽略了宜人的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">微风、可爱的动物、友善的路人,他断开了与自己相关联的一切人事物因为他的内心只想着目标</span>......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个习惯于追求目标的人,会像一个被按下”工作键“的机器一样,始终在紧张中机械度日。他自然会失去作为一个人本该有的敏感度,对生活的敏感对,对周遭人事物的敏感度,对美的敏感度,对爱的敏感度,对一棵树的敏感度,对一朵花的敏感度.....</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他紧盯着目标,即便达成了,却也成了全世界“最不幸”的人,因为他感受不到</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/08/blog-post_98.html">喜悦</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">和幸福。<span style="background-color: #92cddc; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: white; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;">当一个人无法被满足时,就会陷入抑郁。</span>还能再拥有些什么目标才能满足自己呢?没有了!无论再拥有任何,只要他失去了感知力,他永远都将不幸。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有的智者都教导我们说:"明天会更好“是最大的自我欺骗。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人,如果无法过好今天,无法过好此时此刻,他梦想中的那个“更好的明天”,将永远无法显化,他们永远也等不到。最关键的在于,他<span style="background-color: #92cddc; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: white; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">是否知道自己真正喜欢什么和想要什么,他是否在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">今天、在当下就</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">体验着喜悦和意义</span>,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">否则,他们就会在等待永远无法企及的美好明天中日渐消沉。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最愚蠢的事情莫过于,有些怯懦之人会说:“好吧,那就这样吧,反正已经这样了。”然后,他们把自己独立于世界之外,放弃生活,甚至放弃生命,却自始至终也不敢</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_6.html">面对</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真实的自己和真实的世界;而另一些人,则寄希望和期盼于一生,直至临死前,还会继续自我欺骗说:“来生会更好。”</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这些人,既让人心痛,又让人惋惜。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在我们的一生当中,如果错把“结果”当成“目标,很多”不幸“就会接踵而来。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">爱情、金钱、权利等等都只不过是在我们跟随了自己内心,做了自己想做的事情,并在正确的行动之后所得到的一个结果。</strong></span>一旦我们颠倒为之,就会错把结果当成目标,从而选择也会发生改变,导致我们永远也无法得最初想要的结果。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></strong></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: #92cddc; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: white; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">只要我们不刻意、不执着、遵从内心并做出正确</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的行为</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,就</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">能毫不费力地</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">得到</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最好的结果。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但那不该是我们执着的“目标”。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在人生旅途中,在每一个行为的抉择中,不断地回归内在,才能明确地分辨出内心的选择,才能不断播下正确的种子、好的种子、善的种子,只有这样,才能</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_21.html">毫不费力地收获正确的结果</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,好的结果和善的结果。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那些所有我们期盼的和曾经失去的,也都将逐一再次回来——希望、美好、爱、喜悦......</span>只是<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">记得</span>在前进的过程中,不断回归内在。</span></p></div><p> </p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-45474712023472288812023-08-06T03:29:00.005-07:002023-08-06T03:29:44.849-07:00经不起质疑的头脑,是疯狂的<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgI7sG4k3Ms52LtcoKettEDogaGcx9Kh8aiChfG0ZgCqOmIYCaQpR7YGm8LYsPHyROSKC1tRn-sI7Pr2dMoyL1rsOYZmVskUHwSlsEKqtcyv2KVnSklxF63K30r9Y9S1mNZNWvwE71czg6RVXGhScFsPc7WEM1NsOwOURQt2lOPE3A0b9Vj8udZp5eTIzg/s578/640.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; 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letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: left;">生命存在的关键,是要深入那些最初看上去陌生、</span><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: left;">黑暗和可怕的地方,并在那里看到生命的本质。<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; text-align: left;"><br /></span></p><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px 0px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们与智者的本质区别在于,智者质疑一切,而我们不是。克里希那穆提说:“要彻底质疑,尤其是质疑我们自己的头脑。”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个将信将疑的头脑往往会制造出</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/12/blog-post_25.html">最大的危险</a></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为这种头脑总是在真理面前表现出怀疑,而在谎言面前却完全臣服。</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">难怪</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">马克.吐温曾这样讲道:“当真理还在穿鞋的时候,谎言已经走遍了半个地球。”这足</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">以<span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">阐述当今世界人们愚痴和癫狂的程度。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这一危险状态的表现,就是我们大部分人都在“我知道”、“我明白”、“我懂”和各种所谓的”美好“假象中</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #333333; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, font-extend; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-indent: 28px;">惶惶不可终日地得过且过。虽然大部分时候我们并意识不到它们,又或者,假装它们并不存在。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #333333; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, font-extend; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-indent: 28px;">这样的头脑,仅从社交圈里别人的一张旅行照,就有可能制造出各种各样的结论——</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“他的生活真好。”</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #333333; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif, font-extend; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-indent: 28px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“他可真有钱。”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“他好幸福。”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“他每天都那么光鲜亮丽。”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">“看见”本身就是一个幻象</a></span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,更别说头脑不仅把“看见”当真了,还不停地创作出更多的“幻象”泡泡来。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“他的生活真好。”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/09/blog-post.html">那是真的吗</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">?拍照的刹那只不过1秒钟,用1秒钟来定格一个人的生活好坏与否未免也太儿戏了。</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他可真有钱。</span>”那是真的吗?我们怎么知道他积蓄了多久才有了旅行的费用,又或者,他是透过信用卡的透支来完成旅行的,又或者他在此次旅行之后,要过好久才能恢复正常生活?</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他好幸福。</span>”<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那是真的吗?我们怎么能仅从一张照片就看出一个人幸福与否?我们怎么知道他在旅途中受了多少苦,遇到了多少意外,又或者,他一直备受心灵的折磨所以才去散散心......</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">他每天都那么光鲜亮丽。</span>”<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那是真的吗?我们怎么能知道镜头之外的他是什么样?他是否真的享受那一切,还是只是做给别人看的?</span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当然,我并没有说社交圈里的moment都是假的,</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们也当然可以发自内心地、真心地祝福我们的朋友,愿他一切都如所是的样子。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">但是,我们最终要看向自己的内在,否则就会生出各种各样的羡慕嫉妒恨来——</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: var(--articleFontsize); letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我为什么不能和他一样?”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我怎么就没他那么有钱?”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我怎么就没他那么幸福?”</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我怎么就不能像他那样每天都光鲜亮丽?”<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">烦恼就是这样被“作”出来的,继而滋生出各种欲望,而那正是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post.html">痛苦的根源</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可是,如果我们从头开始质疑一切,每一个幻象泡泡都会不戳自破。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: var(--articleFontsize); letter-spacing: 0.034em; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我为什么不能和他一样?”警觉自己怎么会产生这样的念头。你为什么要和他一样?每一个个体都是独一无二的,当你和他一样时,就没有你了,那是你所希望的吗?如果不是,你是否更需要聚焦于“我怎样才能成为更好的自己”这个问题上呢?</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我怎么就没他那么有钱?”警觉是什么让你</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/07/blog-post.html">产生这个念头</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的?真的缺钱,还是欲望和虚荣心?如何判断是前者还是后者?真的食不果腹就属于前者,如果是这样,</span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">把精力集中在“我怎样才能获得更多财富”上会更有帮助。</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果不愁吃喝,则是后者,去继续探寻是什么催生了那个欲望。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我怎么就没他那么幸福?”同样,这是谁认同的幸福?你的头脑还是内心?头脑对幸福的定义是什么,它和内心的幸福有何不同?</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">透过质疑一切,尤其是质疑自己头脑中的一切,我们的觉知会逐渐增强,然后到意识到:在这个世界上,没什么好坏对错,没有所谓的</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/06/blog-post.html">伤害</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">或被伤害,没有应该或不应该。作为存在,</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/08/blog-post_98.html">喜悦</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一直都在,而我们最应该做的,就是百分之百地信任生命,找到那自始至终都在却始终被拒之门外的喜悦。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们可以做自己喜欢的一切,但是,要警觉不能</span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/11/blog-post_9.html">为了......而做</a></span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一切为了......而做的事情,都是虚伪和自我欺骗的表现。</span></span></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不要为了要显得自己去过很多地方而去旅行,那不是旅行,那是在花钱找罪受;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不要为了要显得自己很幸福,而去欺骗自己继续一段不再适合的关系,那最终只会让自己伤痕累累;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不要为了要显得自己光鲜亮丽,而去做一些无谓的事情,那毫无意义,终究还是如人饮水,冷暖自知......</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有我们不愿面对和拒绝面对的一切,或迟或早都终将成为阴影反过来控制我们。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它们在阴暗处啃噬,直到我们愿意看到它、接受它并爱它为止。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们需要克服将外部投射作为决定性元素的干扰,探寻表现之下的真相。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p></section></section></section><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 5px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命存在的关键,是要深入那些最初看上去陌生、黑暗和可怕的地方,并在那里看到生命的本质——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_17.html">光和爱</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。这是生命成长的必经之路,需要勇气和信心。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 5px 8px 24px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如若我们能透过体验获得这些珍贵且惊人的领悟,便能走在轻松、自由和喜悦的路上。</span></p><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px 8px 0em; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-74800171136226034842023-07-31T01:56:00.003-07:002023-07-31T01:56:30.724-07:00一个最简单的方法,回归美好与丰盛<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;">在没有”我“的世界里,一切如常。</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="background-color: white; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><br /></span></div><p></p><section data-width="100%" style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 24px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><section mpa-from-tpl="t" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section data-width="100%" style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">成功学教练Tom Ferry曾这样总结道:"<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">人们追求梦想的能力可能会受到以下四种‘瘾’的阻碍——<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">1、沉迷于别人对自己的看法;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">2、沉迷于在错误的追求刺激的过程中制造的戏剧性;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">3、沉迷于认为自己被过去发生的事情所禁锢;<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">4、沉迷于让我们充满焦虑的消极想法。"</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section></section></section></section><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在人类生存的社会层面,这个总结非常适用。但我仍然<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想说,</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人不自知地沉迷于”我“以及”我的“种种时,他便在同一时间错过了</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_23.html">美和爱</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,他就错过了人事物原本的真相。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想想看,是不是所有的矛盾、冲突、痛苦都源自于此?我们之所以感受不到生命的馈赠,正是因为头脑的那些小伎俩在阻止我们看到生活正在以最隐秘的方式为我们送上祝福;我们之所以</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/08/blog-post_26.html">感知</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙的恩赐,是因为所有</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html#more">累积的知识和常识</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,那些在过去某个点可能适用的知识或常识,阻止了我们向前一步去探索全新和未知的世界。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑制造对立,我们便会毫不犹豫地<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">去抱怨、</span>去谴责、去</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html">评判</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......当所有这一切都成为一种既定模式时,我们就无时无刻不在地狱中煎熬。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果换一种方式会怎样?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">像欣赏美景一样欣赏任何一个人、事、物会怎样?就像当我们在一片寂静的湖边感受大自然的鬼斧神工时那样,除了满怀欣喜和敬畏地欣赏它之外,什么也没有,那是忘我的状态。我们不会去说;”我觉得湖水的颜色应该再绿一点,湖水应该再清澈一点,那片树林的倒影应该再规整一点......“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">没有”我</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">"</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">以及“我的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”一切。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">是的,就像观察世界上那些美得令人窒息的美景那样去观察每一个人事物——我们的父母、孩子、亲戚、同学、朋友,在街上叫骂的人、神志不清的人、老人、小孩、婴儿,那些我们喜欢的不喜欢的,爱的、恨的......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每每在那些繁华的街头,想象自己并不在那里,想象自己是空气一般的存在,除了呼吸没有任何,就只是<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">看着人来人往。慢慢地,我们会感知到,在没有”我“的世界里,一切如常;</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">每每在家里的时候,想象自己并不在那里,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想象自己是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">空气</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一般的存在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,除了呼吸</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">没有任何</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,就只是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">看着家人在那里来来去去。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">慢慢地,我们会感知到,</span>在没有<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”我“的家中,一切如常。</span></span></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果没有”我“,一切人事物都会在自己既定的轨道上如常运转,毫无偏差,就像星空一样完美无瑕。只有当我出现时,问题就出现了,矛盾就出现了,对立就出现了,痛苦就出现了。而”我“不在时,一切的美好和丰盛都在那里,他们始终在那里。</span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这是回归美好与丰盛最简单有效的方法。所以,请记得</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">多做这个练习</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></span></span></span></span></section></div><p><br /></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-83018327036306010752023-07-27T03:13:00.002-07:002023-07-27T03:13:12.783-07:00意义何在?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjt5ce_72FB6CZptuttR8LmOlMMbqobqc_Mb2KWcwtpSXa8YNdqWsO1kB5tlizNceJt_PkJwB1P-63_Cg-CMCTzb-OWkOdaPWKPzJUhPhRPcIGsocwxy7VKbrMlpTLiD6qOKej558M2q_I5GznNJKxovF-Q1auKFf88vWDelNKCwsNT_GqidTuR-uzDfUw/s1528/Image%20for%20blog%20-%20How%20Did%20Meaning%20Enter%20a%20Material,%20Meaningless%20Universe%20-%20Future%20-%20AdobeStock.jpeg.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="1528" height="210" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjt5ce_72FB6CZptuttR8LmOlMMbqobqc_Mb2KWcwtpSXa8YNdqWsO1kB5tlizNceJt_PkJwB1P-63_Cg-CMCTzb-OWkOdaPWKPzJUhPhRPcIGsocwxy7VKbrMlpTLiD6qOKej558M2q_I5GznNJKxovF-Q1auKFf88vWDelNKCwsNT_GqidTuR-uzDfUw/w400-h210/Image%20for%20blog%20-%20How%20Did%20Meaning%20Enter%20a%20Material,%20Meaningless%20Universe%20-%20Future%20-%20AdobeStock.jpeg.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">一切都只是运动,没有结果,只有存在,纯粹的存在。</span></div><p><br /></p><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">前不久,有朋友在《</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">如何才能开启智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">》文末留言:“既然智慧不是知识的累积,不是经验和传统,那经验和传统,还有历史遗留下来的文化和建筑对我们有什么意义呢?<span><a name='more'></a></span></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">虽然我一直不认可'传统'就是拿来跟随,但它们延续至今对我们的启示是什么呢?因为如果没有,那么推倒翻新遗忘就变得肆无忌惮且合理。”</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">由于留言回复</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的字数有限,今天,我想和大家专门来聊聊这个话题,因为并不是只有这一位朋友在问有关于“意义何在”的问题,大部分咨询者都会提到诸如此类的问题。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">比如:如果我被伴侣抛弃了,那我活着的意义何在?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们不生个孩子,那我的婚姻意义何在?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">对于非常多的“成功”人士,他们已经是成千上万人追捧和羡慕的对象了,然而,他们也依然会问我:</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“我现在要什么有什么,可是我依然感觉不到快乐,人生的意义何在?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”.....</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们能够“有幸”让自己稍稍安静一会儿,那么,很快我们便会发现,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post_31.html">头脑</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">始终在喋喋不休,它永无止境地自说自话,自问自答。只要头脑还在,它就永远都有问题,永远都需要答案。追求意义,就是头脑想要答案的问题之一。无论看上去或听上去多么高深莫测的问题,都是头脑在强调自我/</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/08/blog-post.html">小我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的把戏。而只要我们还受制于头脑,就永远也无法触及真正的“答案”——实相。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当小孩子还没有发展出完全自我的时候,在那个阶段,他们总是最富有创造力的。我们见过他们在雨中奔跑,在泥巴中嬉戏,在沙滩上挖沙堆城堡,一个在另一个面前做了个鬼脸,另一个就被逗得哈哈大笑,一个用手指在另一个的身上戳一戳,就能把另一个逗得笑弯了腰......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们会去问他们这样做的意义何在吗?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们会去问太阳“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">你每天东升西落,意义何在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”吗?我们会去问月亮</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“你总是阴晴圆缺,到底在干嘛</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”吗?我们会去问大海</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“你的浪来了又去,究竟有什么意义</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”吗?我们会问一棵野草</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“你为何要在这里</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”吗?我们会去问一朵云彩</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“你怎么飘到这里来</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”吗?.....</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">很多人都会说”不会“,但是,我却见到很多人会对孩子说:“那么大雨还在那里瞎跑,你傻啊?!”又或者:“你看看,泥巴都把衣服弄脏了!”还或者:“沙堡一阵风吹来一个浪打来就被没了,堆它干什么呢?”......</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们以一个生命的状态观察这一切,便会被这一切所感染,便会被那纯粹的快乐所感染,我们不会去问,我们只会去看。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">孩子们的创造力使得他们快乐,他们活在当下,无论周遭的环境如何,永远都无法阻止他们快乐,那便是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/01/blog-post.html">存在</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的一切。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果我们可以全身心投入去观察五六岁的孩子和<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">动、植物</span>, 抱着一颗学习和臣服的心而非一颗高高在上的态度去观察他们并向他们学习,就会发现生命的真谛。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">存在就只是纯粹地存在,没有为什么,它不需要任何理由;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">没有目的,它不需要任何目的;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">没有意义,它不凭借任何意义而存在。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">存在,就只是存在。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它不需要任何头脑的参与,它不是生意人,它不算计。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当头脑停止时,所有的算计和寻求就停止了。通常我们所认为的那个“我”,就会成为什么也不想要,什么都不期待的空无。甚至连“我存在”都会渐渐消失。曾经如此习以为常确信的诸多事情,最终会变成究竟的实相——</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">空无</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">智者说:“经由'不知'我感到自己没有失去任何,因为我全部的知道都是假(错误)的。我的‘不知’本身才是真正的知识——一切知识都是无知,‘我不知道’是头脑能做的唯一真实陈述。实相永远如如不动,却也在不断运动。就像一条</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">河流</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,它既是流动的却又永远依然在那里。流动的不是河或者河床与河岸,而是水。宇宙充满了行动,但却没有行动者。有数不清的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/11/ppd.html">人格</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">透过认同,想象自己在行动,但这并不会改变事实/实相——行动的世界是一个单一的整体,在其中一切都取决于一切并影响这一切。星象深深地影响着我们,而我们也影响着它们。“</span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></section><section style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 2em; margin: 16px 8px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">在实相中,只有一个整体,我中有你,你中有我;或者说,没有我也没有你,只有它。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/02/blog-post_20.html">一切都只是运动</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,没有结果,只有存在,纯粹的存在。存在不是为了什么实用的目的和意义。没有意义——就是一切的意义。</span></section><div><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-21577786086081819232023-07-13T01:39:00.005-07:002023-07-13T01:39:34.386-07:00办法总比困难多<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgc-ubJKLpRdb4PfGl7a-bQEd8cWW_kbddr-FOzcHN8xvTdfIW-Cjm8B5i09Nli3IjazoCxTiewojcarHjBwIz2aL_BBWSPfIxKOFsW41Nc88xzlpbTpCvIbMOz6O2De5gg1JSRdUVigq8ylfJsr_2hhrqEqBLNwdhdqTkI-bzLH_xXGESnXjuV1eHQsIQ/s1440/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230713161916.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1439" data-original-width="1440" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgc-ubJKLpRdb4PfGl7a-bQEd8cWW_kbddr-FOzcHN8xvTdfIW-Cjm8B5i09Nli3IjazoCxTiewojcarHjBwIz2aL_BBWSPfIxKOFsW41Nc88xzlpbTpCvIbMOz6O2De5gg1JSRdUVigq8ylfJsr_2hhrqEqBLNwdhdqTkI-bzLH_xXGESnXjuV1eHQsIQ/w400-h400/%E5%BE%AE%E4%BF%A1%E5%9B%BE%E7%89%87_20230713161916.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div>生活的障碍已经够多了,所以不要成为自己的障碍。<span><a name='more'></a></span><p></p><p>回望生活中那些让自己感到受阻或失望的地方,在这些地方依靠<a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a>取胜而不是脾气。</p><p>火星在处女座强调机灵和智慧,这意味着办法总比困难多。挺身而出,勇于承担责任,尽自己最大的努力,看看宇宙将会让我们收获什么。</p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-82735653688494335532023-06-16T02:29:00.005-07:002023-06-16T02:29:54.743-07:00如何正确处理“不想面对但又不得不面对”的问题<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvZa5XWy-ycJoQrA5147XDinnDJd-30GjHJ7DC0n83bRXeaGYvGNOekdOl5G4hXqN8K6VITYcv7WwaFJeU5xherH5f3woI2OCZYvCU7SFC4echVmpXOON8IKKAGqChwcGLZMoexaL7VxT6Wdos1_RJv8-Dzx9vOCzja9VP6w7h25DNSsKWYh5pPkU4/s450/f10857ffb643dc65aa6ef77a1eb30e1b.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="253" data-original-width="450" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvZa5XWy-ycJoQrA5147XDinnDJd-30GjHJ7DC0n83bRXeaGYvGNOekdOl5G4hXqN8K6VITYcv7WwaFJeU5xherH5f3woI2OCZYvCU7SFC4echVmpXOON8IKKAGqChwcGLZMoexaL7VxT6Wdos1_RJv8-Dzx9vOCzja9VP6w7h25DNSsKWYh5pPkU4/w400-h225/f10857ffb643dc65aa6ef77a1eb30e1b.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">绝大多数人都在习惯着自己的恐惧的同时</span><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">逃避着自己的恐惧。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="color: #222222; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最近一段时间,有太多朋友都遇到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不想面对但又不得不去面对的问题。<span></span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有些人不想面对自己的身体出现的问题,但身体始终发出的讯号又让他不得不去面对那些问题;有些人不想面对工作中遇到的难题,但现实又令他不得不去面对那些困难;有些人不想面对事业上遇到的瓶颈和挑战,但又不得不去面对那一大摊子等着他去处理的麻烦;有些人不想面对金钱上的问题,但又不得不为了生存而花更多的钱;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">些人不想面对人际关</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">系中遇到的困</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">扰,但又不得不去和自己不喜</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">欢的人打交道;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有些人</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不想面对令自己失望和绝望的情感问题,但又不得不去面对做出抉择的挣扎......总之,每一个人,似乎在</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生活的不同</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">面向中</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,都面临着诸如此类的困境和压力。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不过,请先不要为此而着急跺脚和怨声载道。因为,好消息是——这其实并不单单是某个个体的问题,而是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_9.html">土星</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">逆行周期给地球人类带来的压力所致。既然如此,那么另一个好消息就是:既然这是土星/</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post.html">业力</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">的课题,那么,如果我们愿意接受这份功课单并努力、出色地完成它,当土星恢复顺行时,我们也将会出色地完成自己一直需要进化却始终在逃避或还没来得及完成的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_21.html">人生功课</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。何乐而不为呢?</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">土星每年都会逆行一次,也就是说,宇宙每一年都在提醒我们需要完成自己的业力功课单,只是我们每个人能够感知到“召唤”的时间点和人生功课各不相同。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">今年,土星将于北京时间6月<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">18日至11月6日处于逆行期。每当它在逆行前,都会有一段或长或短的时间处于停滞状态,逆行期间也会更加靠近地球。因此,它对地球的影响往往在逆行前就已经开始了,这就是为何近一段时间以来很多人都感受到压力和不适感的原因。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">毫无疑问,当我们认为自己有不想面对但又不得不去面对的问题时,一定是处于</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/10/blog-post_29.html">痛苦</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">之中的。头脑希望所有的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">问题都在自己的掌控之中,但现实绝不可能根据每个人头脑中的期望而改变,否则世界会大乱,不是吗?</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">既然我们都明白这个道理,既然我们知道头脑是头脑,现实是现实,就需要用一颗臣服的心来引领自我,跟随现实,真正意识到仅活在头脑中是产生痛苦的根源,我们唯一需要做的,是意识到头脑的幻象,意识到我们在那里已经待了许久,现在是时候勇敢地面对和接受生命给予我们的课题了。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命的目的是不断去“冒险”。之所以是打了引号的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/09/blog-post_27.html">冒险</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,不是说要让我们去跳悬崖,而是说生命需要去体验各种头脑不想要的未知,对于习惯于用“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/08/blog-post_21.html">已知</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”来掌控一切的头脑来说,所有的“未知”对它而言都是冒险。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”不想面对“和”不得不面对“是头脑极端分裂的显现。这两者没有一个是能够让生命成长的因素。前者是逃避,后者是应付。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑最”智能“的表现只能是”利益最大化“,仅此而已。而一个生命的高等智能是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2023/03/blog-post_26.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。智慧不是此好彼坏,而是包容一切的完整与合一。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那我们究竟要怎样去处理”<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不想面对但又不得不去面对“的问题呢?</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">学会对自己提问!</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">学会问自己:”如果我按照自己喜欢的方式前进,我最害怕发生什么?“</span></strong></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">绝大多数人都在习惯着自己的恐惧的同时逃避着自己的恐惧,而这个提问,恰恰可以利用我们的恐惧。我们只需要对自己诚实就好,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">只需要承认:第一,我会害怕;第二,找出我害怕什么,就足够了。</strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一旦我们愿意对自己诚实,并且愿意倾听自我,我就能以更快、更明晰的方式认识到自己的恐惧,而答案也会轻而易举地浮现。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">因为问题本身往往就是答案——</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有些人害怕身体变得更糟糕;有些人害怕丢掉自己并不喜欢的工作;有些人害怕自己破产;有些人害怕别人说自己没用,连自己都养不活;</span>有些人害怕和那些与自己三观不合的人打交道;有些人害怕为自己承担责任......总的来讲,每个人都能感受到自己的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_17.html">负面情绪</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">占据了主导。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人认为自己无法抗拒负面情绪时,这本身就是一种负面情绪,久而久之,它甚至会形成一种极为负面的信念系统。可是,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">那是真的吗?当然不是!那只是一个假想,那不是事实!</strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">要随时辨别出头脑的诡计!当我们想要改变时,头脑中的负面信念就会花样百出地试图说服我们——改变会困难重重;改变很艰难;那些挑战并不适合每一个人等等等等的借口。头脑的狡猾就在于它常常利用“恐惧”的负面信念系统来延续“</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post_10.html">自我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当意识到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">负面的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post.html">信念系统</a></span></span>处于主导时,<strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们唯一需要做的,不是排斥它,而是接受它的存在。</strong>我们需要深深地拥抱它,并对自己说:“我有这种感受很正常,它一定是有原因的,那原因究竟是什么呢?让我来慢慢梳理梳理——</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我害怕身体变得更糟,那做些什么可以让身体变得更好呢;我害怕丢掉自己并不喜欢的工作,究竟更怕丢掉工作还是更怕自己不喜欢?如果是后者,找一份自己更喜欢的工作就万事大吉啦。如果</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">是怕找不到更好的工作,那就开始发掘和整合自己的优势,给自己充电,机会总是留给有准备的人,将自己变成那个有准备的人;害怕自己破产,害怕连自己都养不活......可以算一算,只是活着,每天/每月究竟需要多少钱?当我们认真的做过这个算术题后,就不难发现自己只是在杞人忧天;害怕</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">与观念不同的人打交道,那就<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">不</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">要太在意这个”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我“,不要太介意</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">这个”我“在别人眼中的</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">印象,因为如果”我“按照每个人的观念和想法活,那就会被撕扯得四分五裂根本没法活。所以,请允许自己做自己,也允许别人做别人......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一切都没有问题,只是信念系统的问题。而幸运的是,既然负面的<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">信念</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">系统是自我不断地透过<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">思想、情绪、行为以及对外界的投射不断强化而来的,那么,我们也可以透过不断地联系来让这一切变成积极和正面的信念系统,这需要时间和意志力,请给自己一些时间,也同时锻炼锻炼自己的意志力。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">宇宙费劲心思,让业力土星每隔一段时间就传递讯息给人类——要面对业力课题,要成长,要进化,它用无尽的爱与慈悲不厌其烦地如此教导我们。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">请放心,只要我们不排斥、勇于接受流入我们生命中的一切,用心去觉察和反思,看似严苛的土星就会用他最温柔的方式让我们获得内在成长。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></strong></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">只是换一个角度看待问题,人生就会变得完全不同。福祸相依,危机即转机,全凭我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/05/blog-post_12.html">以怎样的信念系统在解读这一切</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。因此,最重要的,不是哪颗行星逆行了,也不是哪些我们不想要的来到我们生命之中了,而是我们拥有怎样的信念系统。</span></p><h1 class="rich_media_title " id="activity-name" style="background-color: white; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 22px; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 1.4; margin: 0px 0px 14px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></h1><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-69752845873384412092023-06-09T02:29:00.003-07:002023-06-09T02:29:22.701-07:00想要不受伤害的唯一方式<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKs0KsCokVXDeCOqr7PZTTBMmaPHcQAdbhn4CNHiTSY8gJpcsMEDdubHl7t56fZi0SPNIGNP7KGbqcaFkR8vT4tkbiVkneN-v7LCNHLPDioH7KjIchIpAs9S8UE-TKhb_JaDuCEdIfH1_hQ7oR17CAwmujdX4C9kIWJ9ZycJtqPNR7QpYWHejhUV03/s1240/36609_hd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="649" data-original-width="1240" height="209" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKs0KsCokVXDeCOqr7PZTTBMmaPHcQAdbhn4CNHiTSY8gJpcsMEDdubHl7t56fZi0SPNIGNP7KGbqcaFkR8vT4tkbiVkneN-v7LCNHLPDioH7KjIchIpAs9S8UE-TKhb_JaDuCEdIfH1_hQ7oR17CAwmujdX4C9kIWJ9ZycJtqPNR7QpYWHejhUV03/w400-h209/36609_hd.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 12px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">大多数人的不幸,并非他们过于软弱,</span><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;">而是因为他们过于坚强。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px 0px 0em; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"><span style="font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><br /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一直以来,我们都被教育要学会变得坚强。因为,那似乎意味着可以不受伤害。<span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从小到大,当我们被脚下的石头”绊倒“哇哇大哭时,我们会被告知:要坚强,等我们长大了,变得坚强时,就可以一脚踢开那些绊脚石;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们带着好奇心刚刚初显人性想要掌控一切生命、捉蜜蜂被其所蛰时,我们被告知:要坚强,等我们学会用一些技巧时就能制服它们;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们在运动会上没能拿到第一名,满怀挫败感低声啜泣时,我们被告知:要坚强,因为坚强才能打败对手;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们在考试中没能得到理想的成绩,嚎啕大哭时,我们被告知:要坚强,因为坚强的人才是最终的胜利者;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们此生第一次遇到错的人,受到情感的伤害时,我们被告知:要坚强,因为只有自己坚强起来,才能给他们好看......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们长大成人时,”坚强“二字已经深深地植入我们的血液和骨髓。坚强似乎意味着我们必须在某种程度上变得强大。无需再被人告知,我们自己便会不由自主地透过<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">知识、金钱、头脑、力量、权力......来武装和加固自己,给自己套上一层层的保护套,好让自己看上去无畏且坚固,不让自己受到伤害。然后,我们将此”真理“复制给自己的下一代,好让他们也免受其苦。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">然而,教育不是累积</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/12/blog-post.html#more">经验</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,培养专家、教授和行走的百科全书,教育是启发一个生命的完整性。显然,我们中的绝大多数人,从未接受过这样的教育。我们所接受的教育,始终都是在割裂生命的完整性。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">智慧源自于意识,而记忆则源自于头脑。头脑是被学校、家庭、社会所训化的产物,它只需要我们有一个良好的记忆力就足够了。可那并不是</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">智慧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,即便我们的头脑可以被输入所有的天文、地理、历史、科学.....所有的知识,它也无法处理生命的问题,这就是问题所在。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们甚至从未质疑过这种方式是否真的可以让自己</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">变得无坚不摧。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们迷信般地透过一切外在的拥有试图让自己变得像钻石一样坚硬。<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">坚强是一个由外而内的”硬化“过程。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">可是我们却忘了,就连这个世界上最坚硬的石头——钻石</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">都能够被切割</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,更何况肉体凡胎的我们?</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">!</span></span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当人们在提出“如何才能不受伤害”这个问题时,其实就已经身处于害怕或恐惧之中了。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们必须去深入那个</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_9.html">恐惧</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,而不是要一个简单的答案。答案帮不到我们,只有勇于深入那个害怕的心,去观察它为何会害怕,是谁在让自己害怕时,我们才能直面最根本的本质,问题才能得以解决。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">本来只是出于自我保护的意愿,却不知不觉地偏离初衷,使它们成了一种执念或执着。当面具戴德越厚,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们就越难以透气;当面具戴得</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">越久,我们就越容易失去真正的自我。我们所拥有的,也正在消耗着我们。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">很多外表越是看上去强大的人,越喜欢虚张声势,因为他的内心是怯懦的。他们怕失去,怕被看穿,怕遇到比自己更强大的人,于是,他们不得不透过虚张声势来让自己看上去显得强大,他们以为这样就能不受伤害。更多时候,他们会在这种虚假的自信中变得神经质,变得</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2021/08/blog-post_9.html">焦虑</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">,变得偏执。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当一个人总是想着“如何才能不受伤害时”,他就已经制造出了对立和敌意,因为他知道总有那么一个(些)人、事、物可能、或许、大概、估计会伤害他,所以他的头脑开始警惕,他的神经会变得紧绷,他会开始进入</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/11/1.html">防御状态</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个人成熟与否,并不在于他是否看上去越来越坚强、越来越强硬、越来越冷漠、越来越孤立,而是看他是否越来越柔软、越来越温暖。</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">成熟是变得温柔和柔软的过程,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">成熟是对很多事物都能看淡、放下,对万事万物保持慈悲的态度,是以爱的眼光看世界的方式。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们被绊脚石绊倒时,我们可以痛哭,那是自然的情绪流露,请允许它们自然流露。然后我们要感谢那块绊脚石,是它让我们在人生之初就明白了一个道理——人生之路不总是康庄大道;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们被蜜蜂所蛰时,我们可以流泪,那是自然的情绪流露,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">请允许它们自然流露。</span>然后我们要感谢那只蜜蜂,是它让我们明白了——每个生命都有保护自己的权利;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们没能取得第一名和优异的成绩时,我们可以沮丧,那是自然的情绪流露,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">请允许它们自然流露。</span>然后我们要感谢那些比我们优秀的人,是他们让我们明白了——生命需要良性的竞争才能不断进化;</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当我们受到情感的伤害时,我们可以悲痛,那是自然的情绪流露,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">请允许它们自然流露。</span>然后我们要感谢那个人,是他让教会了我们——什么是爱,以及如何去爱......</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">爱是接纳、包容、允许一切的存在,它是柔软的,像水一样柔软,向天空一样空无。所以没有任何可以伤害它。爱是”</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2020/12/blog-post.html">无我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">“和空,所以没有任何可以伤害它。一旦“我”出现,就一定会有一些东西可以伤害到“我”。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">真正的强大,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">并不需要变得坚强,而是需要学习如何变得柔软。</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">把那些自己和他人所定义的东西通通放下,让“我”的那些过去的认知——自我认同全然消弭。只有在彻底瓦解“我”的定义和认同感之后,“我”才能重获自由,我们才能能重获一个全新的“我”,我们</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">才能希冀于未来,毫无障碍地</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">去窥探生命的无限可能。</span></p><div><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></div><p><br /></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7573325226102681936.post-22909499988896218992023-05-25T09:15:00.004-07:002023-05-25T09:15:21.214-07:00身陷漩涡的无力感<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81_YFB968zZEow8rNR00tGqJVU3lI3eZfvtTjLljQ1nbWdKsbliVhbnaaSGH8l1Y3Yfri4QPHgjQJ_NclPKNZy_8NVGpP92yvJFxRzHf29FLcQO5KX5VPEtgplI4wZw8Qnx3n5gAL-Q8qKSEHpq7UCvWARyy2gQGYNdznDRYqvT6WOdrbPG5vWNz1/s1280/beach-1851101_1280.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="1280" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi81_YFB968zZEow8rNR00tGqJVU3lI3eZfvtTjLljQ1nbWdKsbliVhbnaaSGH8l1Y3Yfri4QPHgjQJ_NclPKNZy_8NVGpP92yvJFxRzHf29FLcQO5KX5VPEtgplI4wZw8Qnx3n5gAL-Q8qKSEHpq7UCvWARyy2gQGYNdznDRYqvT6WOdrbPG5vWNz1/w400-h300/beach-1851101_1280.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: center;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">让人感到‘无力”的,并不是”漩涡“本身,</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 0.5px;">而是头脑对漩涡的抗拒。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">生命犹如一条缓缓流淌的溪流,在没有头脑的参与下,它只是存在和经验这个世界,它就是它本身。这就是生命的真谛——成为它自己,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/04/blog-post_11.html">成为自己本身的样子</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。<span></span></span></span></p><a name='more'></a><p></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果你也和我一样,常常注视着顺势而流的小河,倾听和感受它们为我们讲述生命的真谛,就会发现漩涡是整条河流中最美、最不可思议且最令人陶醉的时刻之一。<br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它们在水流中自然形成,接着便优雅地旋转,时不时地,带动一片叶子或一节枝杆一起共舞。它们互动、<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">旋转、</span>不停地舞动,犹如在演绎一场盛大的华尔兹。忽然,就在不经意间,它们以最优雅的姿态分开,同一时间,漩涡重新融入河流并随之流淌。一切都是那样自然、美妙、完美地发生,然后一切又都是那样<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">出其不意的结束。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">漩涡没有头脑,所以它不会认为自己在原地打转;<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它没有头脑,所以它不会区分好坏,也不会抗拒;</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它没有头脑,所以它总是顺势而为,不会有”无力感“;<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它没有头脑,所以它不知道自己的</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/03/blog-post.html">自然、美妙和完美</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">。它只做它自己,它只经历来到它生命中的一切,每时每刻。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从某种意义来讲,漩涡是”开悟“的。因为它就是自己本来的样子,它也总是呈现出生命本身的样子,它既是溪流,也是漩涡。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">通常,</span>在一些看似“不幸”的情形下,我们觉察不到头脑(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/01/blog-post.html">小我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">)的不满与叫嚣。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们觉得自己”不幸“被解雇了,找工作很难,所以有种无力感;<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们觉得自己”不幸“</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">错过了航班,</span>既<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">损失金钱又损失时间,</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所以有种无力感;<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">我们觉得自己</span></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">”不幸“被分手,既浪费了青春又浪费了感情,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所以有种无力感;</span>我们觉得自己”不幸“生病了,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">既</span>无法工作又拖累家人,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所以有种无力感......</span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">有多少个头脑,就有多少个头脑所创造出来的”无力感“。当<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">一个生命是它完整的自己时,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">从来没有”无力感“这个东西。可是,当头脑介入时,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所谓的”无力感“就产生了。它是被头脑所消耗的产物。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">想要停止这种消耗,就必须将头脑所关注的外在转移至去觉察自己的内在,觉察内在的宁静。头脑在,就没有宁静可言,它总是会产生各种声音、各种画面、以及各种画外音......宁静属于内在的空间,感受宁静需要觉知。没有了觉知,我们就无法与真正的自己(</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/05/blog-post_26.html">大我</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">)产生连结,无法与大我产生连结,我们就会迷失在头脑里、问题里、困惑里和恐惧里......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">请相信宇宙正在用尽全力来满足我们想要的一切;请相信宇宙让我们正在经历的一切都是完美的;请相信宇宙正在透过<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">所有进入我们生命和生活中的人、事、物来</span>为我们传达更好的信息;请相信宇宙正在用它的方式保护我们;请相信宇宙正在告诉我们该如何去爱并</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: underline;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://www.heartroad.org/2022/10/blog-post_9.html">成为爱</a></span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">......</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">虽然一开始我们大部分人都无法将这些“不幸"视为宇宙的恩赐和礼物,但最明智的做法就是全盘接受,并且相信它是一份承载着全然祝福的礼物。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最简单的真理,就是信任宇宙,跟随宇宙的流动,随遇而安。每一个发生都有其目的和意义,只是头脑缺失了领悟它们的智慧。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">抵触是一种能量,一种割裂爱和完整的抗拒的能量。一旦发生了抗拒和抵触,就会产生相反的作用力,就会消耗,就会产生“无力感”。</span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">如果没有了抗拒和抵触,一切都将如常——生命之流会自然而然地流淌,</span>直到<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">它去到自己该去的地方,但那绝对不是头脑所能企及的地方。</span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;" /></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box !important; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; line-height: 2em; margin: 0px 8px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px; text-align: justify;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; font-size: 15px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">当觉知生起,<span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">头脑消失</span>时,整个生命河流的就会呈现在我们面前,就像我们坐在岸边看河流中的漩涡一样,那些大大小小的漩涡,都将成为我们生命之流中最美、</span><span style="box-sizing: border-box !important; letter-spacing: 0.5px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; outline: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; padding: 0px;">最不可思议和最令人陶醉的时刻。</span></span></p>Kate Cheunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10948194167847415977noreply@blogger.com0